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    Default How To Open A Girl In The Street

    I want to see if anyone here has some nice openers to use in the street. I mean like if I'm walking down the street and i see some hot girl and i want to open up a conversation with her.

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    WOW... The best lines seem to be the ones that are most obvious as well as the ones that are mostly overlooked, for example

    If you see a girl siting alone and on her own and she's not smiling why not start out with something like "Smile, life's not that bad." I've yet to find a female of any age that won't at least smile at you. The Key to this approach is that you MUST look and seem friendly which often times means you're smiling your ass off and looking high in energy. This method can be used on just about any woman that is by herself completely or even one that you just happen to catch away from the group. Half the time girls will give you info on what is going on just as an explanation as to why they aren't smiling and as "happy" as you are at the time. After delivering this line you have already put yourself on the offensive and taken control of the conversation because you can just keep telling her to smile and keep telling her that her reason isnt good enough not to smile.

    (DO NOT DO THIS IF THE REASON SHE ISN'T SMILING IS SERIOUS LIKE DEATH OR ILLNESS, ETC. AT THAT POINT YOU NEED TO ACT AS SURPRISED AS POSSIBLE AND PLAY YOURSELF DOWN AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. I HAVE FOUND THAT BUYING THEM A DRINK OR JUST GIVING ANY NICE GESTURE AS AN APOLOGY PUTS YOU BACK IN THE GAME PRETTY WELL)

    Once you have her smiling and giving ioi's then you just need to not fuck it up. Making a girl happy or getting her to think she is happy is crazy effective.

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    i will admit that is true about the effectiveness of getting a woman from a glum state into a happy one, you just made her day. but going up and saying smile to a girl who isnt smiling is pretty dull, how often do u see girls sitting by themselfs smiling? that would jus look weird, so to go up to her and tell her to do that, she would be like what am i just suposed to sit here and smile for the world every second of the day? its like telling her to do something that isnt natural for anyone to do. ive never seen someone always smiling. Go up to her, (if she were sitting down) casually sit in the chair, relaxed and in control and tell her " listen, i know you here this a dozen times a day, i dont know why i had to come sit down and tell you this, i feel drawn to tell you that you are stunninly beautiful, (she smiles) just to see you smile has made my day. introduce yourself, pauses are key, it builds antisipation. from there on in do not give her any more compliments, (depending on her rating though) otherwize bust on her, and get her laughing. another one would be to nottice something that really sticks out on the girl you see, such as the shoes that she has on, (something that you know she put on purposely to get notticed) and comment on it.

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    Street game is definitely one of my sticking points!

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    If you can get better at street game / opening, all aspects of your pick up will improve.

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    Street/day game can be tough but it will accelerate your night/bar game being compare. If it is hard, it really just means that you are learning a ton from it. I used to be terrified of street game.. but after forcing myself to do it I am somewhat decent and can consistently get numbers and day 2s.

    I suggest if you have trouble with day game, you just go out and start talking to people on the street. If you see an attractive girl, go up to her and say "I saw you walking by and I just had to tell you how attractive you are. I need to go, but I was wondering what you are doing?" If she doesn't have plans invite her on an insta-date for a quick cup of coffee.

    If you can do that, you are doing better than 99% of all men.

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    For the last 2-3 weeks I have been trying to street approaches as often as possible. When walking to work, on weekends I go out and specifically try to talk to as many women as possible. EVERY time it starts out pretty scary and I stumble a bit.. but I have gotten about 12 phone numbers, and actually 3 dates out of it (one of them I even slept with two nights ago!)

    I find that as tough as street game is, once you start doing it.. it gets much easier and really desensitizes you to rejected, fear and Approach Anxiety.

    Last night I went out with some of my AFC friends and they were amazed at how much I have changed.. even in just the last two weeks!

    I challenge everyone reading this to go out and work on your street game. It will be hard, you will NOT like it.. but after you are more confident, going on dates and maybe even sleeping with new girls.. come back and tell me if you are glad you listened.



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    That's great... I know for me that dedicating some time to one part of my life is great and I can not think of one that is more challenging, but also so rewarding than to increase your day game skills. Reminds of a saying, those things that are hardest are the most valuable...

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    Hey Guys - I just tried street opening this morning...

    WOW was it tough. I was super nervous and got blown out the first few times, oh my god it was rough. I kept at it though and despite being scared and embarrassed (a couple saw me do it and actually laughed at me!) I kept at it and after 4-5 times of just doing horrible I had about 3 good openings.

    I eventually got 2 numbers and as I have heard I called them immediately and 1 really cute 24 yr old agreed to meet me for drinks tonight!

    Wish me luck boys!

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    yea he's on top of his game
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