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    gosteelersgo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Too much push, not enough pull

    I'm pretty new to trying game. I've always been really good at teasing girls, making sexual jokes to them and around them, and even making fun of them in a joking way so they laugh and smile. In short, I'm very good at "pushing" girls slightly away, but not so good at pulling them back in and making them chase me. What tips will help me make them want me more? It seems like I first meet a girl, make awkward small talk, and then when the situation pops up I'll throw a joke or neg at her. But I can't "pull her" back in and make her want more. I guess I'm still too friendly and need to use more intense eye contact and physical escalating. I've also backed way off from girls when they decide to text. I used to reply within a minute to any and all texts, now I sometimes give it 15 minutes, sometimes an hour, and sometimes let it go overnight and just let them text me again. Once I get even a bit better at the "pull" I feel like my results will explode and I'll get way more girls than I can even imagine. But it seems like I've hit a roadblock and act like your typical AFC sometimes and it crushes me.

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    Default Re: Too much push, not enough pull

    Compliments and ioi's towards them are how to pull bro. You push with IOD's and pull with IOI's.

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    Default Re: Too much push, not enough pull

    THE absolute thing you have to do is Kino!!
    When you meet a girl (or a guy actually) for the first time, go strait for kino; for girls in a social setting, lean in and place your hand on the small or her back or rest a hand on her forearm when you're talking (for guys, give them a hand shake, and rest a hand on their shoulder)

    the reason i say do it with guys as well, is because this is a very subtle yet powerful way of letting them and everyone else know, you are a confident guy who touches people! if they see you touching girsl around them, they are less likely to feel threatened coz they see you touch everyone!! see? already they'll begin to underestimate you!!

    90% of guys are too scared of touching girls, let alone guys, and the fact that you do will impress everyone!!

    if you touch a girl and get kino going the second you meet her, they will never find it awkward or "strange" when you escalate it.....to them, it comes naturally to you!!!

    trust me dude, I do it all the time and due to this one thing, my confidence, game and results have flourished!!!

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    Default Re: Too much push, not enough pull

    Try this.

    These are two links from a NYC pua
    YouTube - ‪Pick-up Artist Noble Casalupus - What doesn't work‬‏

    YouTube - ‪Pick-up Artist Noble Casalupus - friend zone Dodging‬‏


    You will find life easier if you have lots of things to say. Pick up a woman's magazine = INTOUCH, PEOPLE, OPRAH....as well as MAXIM. Memorize the BS and stories in there and talk about those DRAMA subjects. Women love drama.
    Flirting is how you stay out of the friend zone. Smile, BE FUNNY, use Kino, LEARN TO DANCE (that's how i get laid 40% of the time) Never be overly friendly ....= liar, faker...weirdo.
    Always use lots of eye contact. Women never stop talking when you look deeply into there eyes. TRY it!

    Anyone - young or old....send me a direct email if you want More advice. I'm a old soul and I don't even date anymore. I just score. Write me on here, I love to help.
    plus I'm bored. My girls pay the bills. So I can write you here b/c I hardly have to work.

    -Stevie Dice Thrower
    Last edited by steve456; 07-05-2011 at 06:18 PM. Reason: expression


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