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    basedswag is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default HELP dazed and confused. what should i do?

    K so I have a wierd situation with a girl. Basically a few months ago i never knew this girl and i heard that she really liked me. After finding out i began to talk to her alot and we got to know eachother. We went on one date, and not much after that. She thanked me for the date and told me she had a great time, but we didnt talk much after. I suspect this could be because of certain things i had told my buddies about the date after, which could have circulated quickly or maybe she just didnt enjoy herself on the date. I was just really surprised how she completely stopped talking to me after, considering how much she liked me before. So anyways a month later i approached her at a party and talked to her again and told her we should talk more and what not. She agreed and we started texting all of the next day. She seemed really friendly in her texts. But i later found out from someonne else that she was trying to deal with another guy although they hadnt done anything yet. I didnt text her after that for about a week, untill she texted me out of the blue. we started texting for a little bit and she seemed really comfortable, she was replying to all my texts in the matter of seconds. I initiated another text convo 2 days later and finished it by asking her for her skype acount to which she happily gave me. Its been a week since i added her on skype, and she still hasnt accepted and we havnt talked since. I know this is all a bit confusing but im wondering what i should do. Does she have a thing for that other guy? Should i text her back? Should i wait? Or should i forget about it completely?

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    Default Re: HELP dazed and confused. what should i do?

    I see why you might be confused. Maybe she is too though. It doesn't sound like she completely knows what she wants. My best advice is to simply ask her which I know can be daunting. But you said she seemed comfortable, so just approach her. Ask what's the deal with this other guy in just casual friendly curiosity and see what she has to say. If there's nothing there and it's just high school drama, you may be able to ask her out or something afterward.

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    Default Re: HELP dazed and confused. what should i do?

    It sounds like she was interested, but you did not do enough to keep her engaged. Now she is blowing you off. Personally, I think she knows what she wants, but you are not giving it to her.

    What do women want? A challenging, confident, mysterious guy who knows how to make them feel excited. They want fun, drama, excitement...not a predictable nice guy. See what I'm saying?

    You spent the entire day texting her (which is a mistake), but how much time did you spend raising her interest level? What did you guys text about? Where you flirtatious, did you present a challenge?

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    Default Re: HELP dazed and confused. what should i do?

    I have to agree with Sinful on this one... I find that texting a girl all day means 1 of 2 things

    1) You are right in that friend zone

    2) she is deeply into you

    The latter of the two can be good and bad, depending what it is you want from the girl...

    You have to realize that what you are thinking in your head, exactly what is written in your post, is probably the exact vibe she is picking up from you. The confusion. So, as she sits confused, she is trying to make her mind up about everything else.

    My advice is... either play the game harder with her, show interest with no interest (if it makes sense). Make her feel like YOU are what she wants. Make yourself mysterious. Once, I had a girl who kept playing mind games with me. First off, quick background on her... met her at a club, she fell on the floor, i helped pick her up (the fall on the floor is a natural neg she put on herself). Me helping her up is just a reason to touch her, help her, and then talk to her. Anyway, we made out that night. Things were nice afterwards, but then she began to text less, and was very quite during texts. She basically was playing the game of "i'm real busy so you should understand so the conversations and hang outs should be on you". So at first I tried, but then I realized, why the fark should I be doing this? She would text me "what are you doing?" or something in that variation. I would simply reply, I am out with my friends I haven't seen for a while and going to the bar. Then the convo would lead into how my night is... I simply reply, "music is awesome, good atmosphere."... I kept everything simple, open for interpretation, and light. She then began to grill me with attention. What I did is made her feel like, hey, I am out here having fun without you, with people YOU don't know, doing whatever it is I am doing without really telling you what I am doing. It drives them crazy... be short but direct.

    Second piece of advice.... Move on. There are PLENTY of possibilities out in the sea. You just have to use the right bait. Take this experience and learn from it.

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    Default Re: HELP dazed and confused. what should i do?

    Well, I have to ask, what did you say about the date to your friends?


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