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  1. #1
    Swag_o07 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Shes playing hard to get

    Met this chick at a party. My friends told me she was lesbian..Had a chat wid her on the dance floor..during the convers told her how unfortunate it was shes a lesbian...in fact she told me she's not.its a cover so that guys don't approach her.Got more interested.Put her in a state of trance while talking to her..matched her beliefs and she got crying.dunno y lol Shes playing really hard to get to and i always text her first. She gets me confused coz you never know if shes in to me or not.As such she told me iv got an awesome personality which is kinda rare and dats it.She never texts me and i need some help on what to do next to trigger her emotions coz i feel she's built layers of security. The fact that she's difficult to reach makes me wanna take up the challenge but dunno what to do next. I'm a newbie and want to improve my game.Would really appreciate any tips tricks and help from you guys.
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    Default Re: Shes playing hard to get

    She started crying? Any idea why? Careful, it sounds like she is carrying around some emotional baggage. Girls like this will suck you into their misery, tread lightly.

    It sounds like she isn't interested, or her interest level is 'very' low. How often do you text her, and what are the text messages about? Are they fun, flirty and challenging, or do you send her messages like 'hey, just wanted to say hi'?

    You have to spark some attraction if you want her interest level to climb. It doesn't sound like there is much going on.

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    Default Re: Shes playing hard to get

    yeah if you have a good personality its time to hit a few attraction switches and then your good to go.

    and yeah i agree. u might want to think about this before getting sucked into misery of anxiety and depression from her. if she is going so far as to say shes lesbian then she really doesnt trust men at all.

    next thing to do is be very fun, flirty and playful but try to make her curious and to who completely you are. when she is curious she will look more into you and then you have a chance to do the same and build attraction. after that you need to simply seduce her and then your into getting her addicted to be around you and hang out. with other game related switches you will be in her legs for sure.
    I live in my reality and you’re a guest

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    Swag_o07 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Shes playing hard to get

    @SiNfUl
    think that the state of trance in which she was triggered emotions about emotions and i'm guessin its about her family since i can recall she was telling me very briefly about family stuff and hw they are not united. Yes she plays with the level of interest..a moment she might be interested...and then she shows no interest.For the first 5 days i was texting her everyday.yes was fun serious flirty.what do you mean by challenging? Among the text i sent her indirectly i was flirting and lettin her know im into her you see. But there was no response to it.I've stopped texting her since i was feeling i was going downhill on that and had to come up with a strategy. yea nuffin is going on at the moment and im stuck coz i feel that i tried but not working so i need another strategy or may b im missing something.

    @crobinson1
    yup bro i feel that iv got the power in me and need to do something about it. I'll check wat are attraction switches coz i never heard about it. you said something really interesting about her not trusting men at all it so obvious that i didnt think bout that lol the lil time we spent she knew what type of guy i was.in fact we'v got loads of stuff in common but its like im doing something wrong since i am unable to spark the attraction.

    Thank you very much guys..really appreciate your help.If you got some more ideas i would welcome them

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    Default Re: Shes playing hard to get

    Women love a challenge, nothing can spark interest or attraction more than a guy that can present a challenge. If you make yourself too available (like texting every day) or predictable, you're done. However, if you keep yourself slightly out of reach, keep her guessing, her interest will sky rocket.

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    Swag_o07 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Shes playing hard to get

    Yea kindaf understand what you wanna imply but the thing is that she giving me low interest.I'm wondering if im giving her low interest as well that will not work out thats y i wanna make some move but what? lol

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    SiNfUl is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Shes playing hard to get

    My recommendation, don't get yourself all twisted over this girl. Take the energy you would spend on her and focus it on improving your PUA skills. You made some mistakes at the beginning. Make note of them so they don't happen again and move on to the next target.

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    Swag_o07 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Shes playing hard to get

    I was thinking about this as well...i wanna use her to experience and improve my PUA skills but not target her to be someone i need to go out with. Thanks bruh. Will keep you up to date if ever there is some interesting stuff going on! Keep it pimpin

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    Default Re: Shes playing hard to get

    Good luck Swag...

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    Default Re: Shes playing hard to get

    Cheers bruh


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