Nah, but really.
I come to you guys with an issue that's been biting my ass for a while now and I will now present you with said problem:
My romantic/sexual life with girls has always sort of waxed and waned, but I joined this site to keep it toward the high end most of the time. What usually happens is I will talk to 8-10 girls at once and then eventually become overwhelmed with trying to talk to all of them. Naturally after that realization, the conversations become a little duller on my side. That will normally whittle it down to around 3 girls and I either end up dating one of those girls if I like her enough or I just go after all three. Going after all three usually works for around a month to 4 months but it almost always blows up in my face because they'll want to end up dating and I wouldn't be down for it at that time.
So after all of that, it leaves me with either a girlfriend or a month to 4 months of fooling around with about 3 girls only to have it all end eventually. After that stage, I'll become bored of my current status with girls and I'll repeat it again by talking to another 8-10 girls. This whole cycle usually repeats itself about 3 times a year.
Lately though, it's been happening with increasing speed and I no longer talk to the same amount of girls. My relationship with girls still has its highs but I fear that unless I do something dynamic, I'll end up with nothing and I'd like to prevent that from happening.
So basically I'm asking what I should do to continue.
Also, if it helps, I talk to most of the girls over Facebook or texting. I can talk to girls in person well if I psyche myself up correctly/they'ves showed prior interest/I'm just having a really good day.
Also also, this is my first thread as I have only joined today so if this is in the wrong section of the forums, I'd like to ask a moderator to move it.