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    Default Opener - Girls walking in opposite direction

    I failed yesterday because 90% of the hot girls at the mall were walking in the other direction. I just can't seem to approach them this way with any opener of any sort. Direct seems too confrontational, Indirect seems too creepy. Have you ever woke up in the middle of the night/early morning with a great idea? I think when you confront your subconscious mind with a problem and let it work on that problem, you can really come up with a solution that you had no idea existed. I came up with an opener that I believe will work really well on girls walking the opposite direction. I'm going to Field Test it today and later this week, and I'd appreciate it if any other daygamers tried it out and told me the results. Basically, my opener is a combination of Indirect, Situational, and then Direct. Walk up to girl/set approaching the other way: Me: (Indirect/Situational) Hey, I just saw you drop something over there, it looks like a piece of paper (or whatever). (Make sure you point, so that if shes in a group, you can get them to all look) At this time, I pull out a $10 bill from my pocket. Her: I don't see anything? Me: Made you look! I just stole $10 from you. (hold $10 up and cheeky smile) Do you want it back? (or go funny route, tell her im going to use it to buy a sandwich from the deli, or that she can have it back and come with me to buy it for me). Her: blah blah blah Me: (Direct) Actually, to be honest, I noticed you had this positive vibe about you so I had to come check it out! Transition. Have no idea if it will work. I think you really have to have confident/funny energy going into this (as with most openers), but to me, it seems the best way to open a girl walking the other way. It should seem pretty obvious that you didn't steal from her because it would have been too fast, but you also have to have a response ready in case she really does think you stole $10 from her! Maybe make it a $5 bill just in case she "wants it back"!
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    Default Re: Opener - Girls walking in opposite direction

    Indirect creepy? Lol man you really need to get out there and actually try these things before saying things about them. Indirect would be better, or an observational opener about her shoes or you like her purse etc.

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    Default Re: Opener - Girls walking in opposite direction

    sounds like it could work, have you tested it yet?

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    Default Re: Opener - Girls walking in opposite direction

    If all the hot chicks are walking in the opposite direction, turn around.



    As far as the $ line, I made up one very similar to this. I believe I posted it on this site a while back.

    My variation goes soemthing like this:

    "Hey" while running up to them with a dollar in hand.
    They generally stop and look.
    "I saw this fall out of your purse back there"

    If they agree to take the money I call them out on lying and being greedy.
    If they won't take the money, I just tell them I made it up to get them to stop so I could talk to them.

    It hasn't backfired, yet.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: Opener - Girls walking in opposite direction

    ^ nice dude

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    Default Re: Opener - Girls walking in opposite direction

    Hey let's be honest the whole finding the 10 dollars and pointing it out routine. Its most likely going to be a bit awkward unless you can recover. I'd say if the target is walking the other way make eye contact as you pass and see if the target is somewhat interested. Either way, once you pass turn around walk with the target and say "Hey I'm (insert name here) and I saw you walking by I thought you would be an interesting person to talk to". You can also add something like "so do you come here often" and keep the conversation going for a couple more sentences. From there you can say "I know this is cutting it short but I have some where to go but if you would like to talk more. From there the target will either give you the green light or the red.

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    Default Re: Opener - Girls walking in opposite direction

    Has this been working for you?

    I don't want to be the theory nerd, and I know that PUA rules are more suggestions than anything else, but this suggestion is pretty high on the list of things NOT to do in most PUA methods.

    Not saying you're wrong, but I'd def be curious as to how you're pulling it off. Stands to reason that if you have been successful with this, it's because of some aspect of your in-person game.
    Again, I'm not challenging you... Just curious if you could elaborate, or if I missed a detail.
    Thanks

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    Default Re: Opener - Girls walking in opposite direction

    I think this is actually pretty brilliant because you have made them lower value because you made them do something and then made fun of them for it. Its like a neg right off the bat but indirect. I'm going to try this as soon as I get the chance.

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    Default Re: Opener - Girls walking in opposite direction

    I thought it was kinda funny, and you know what they say, humor is key. Its worth a try, and if all else fails, its still good practice and can be modified and adjusted as such.

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    Default Re: Opener - Girls walking in opposite direction

    Can you go into more detail as to what to say should they accept the money. I like this idea. thanks.
    Quote Originally Posted by nik View Post
    If all the hot chicks are walking in the opposite direction, turn around.



    As far as the $ line, I made up one very similar to this. I believe I posted it on this site a while back.

    My variation goes soemthing like this:

    "Hey" while running up to them with a dollar in hand.
    They generally stop and look.
    "I saw this fall out of your purse back there"

    If they agree to take the money I call them out on lying and being greedy.
    If they won't take the money, I just tell them I made it up to get them to stop so I could talk to them.

    It hasn't backfired, yet.


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