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    Jaz
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    Default Facebook opener friend of a friend

    Ok, the question is pretty obvious from the subject lol. I have a female friend on facebook who I noticed has a very nice looking mutual friend. I already asked my friend if she could introduce me to her friend, and she said yes. This was a few days ago and Ive not heard anything. Im not sure if my friend has actually done anything and even if she has, I think its better if I just now contact the mutual friend directly.

    I dont think Ill add her as the opener as this could appear too keen. Instead I was thinking of an opener along the lines of: hi, Im xxxxxs friend. Dont know if u have heard anything from her but I saw your pic and u seem cute, and I wanted to see what you were like. Afterall, theres more to people than looks. So maybe theres something unique about you.

    This is a variation of something Ive found online but I cant seem to find much else.

    Any ideas for a decent opener? Potentially a good cocky & funny one?

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    Default Re: Facebook opener friend of a friend

    ive really had half a mind to try this but ive had no idea where to start. i know there are rules in online dating pick ups that you cant compliment their looks but if you do. instead of saying "maybe theres something unique about you". say "hopefully there is more to you than just your looks". good luck dude.

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    Default Re: Facebook opener friend of a friend

    I hear window shopping for women is great.

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    Default Re: Facebook opener friend of a friend

    My compliment rule is: that if I'm gonna say something nice, they're gonna pay for it. By that I mean, if I'm gonna build someone UP, they're getting knocked DOWN in the second half of the same sentence.

    An example: Let's say this smoking hot girl has a partying pic as a default on FB, or has a drink in her hand or something.... I'd say, "You know, you look pretty cute..... for a raging alcoholic."

    UP.... DOWN. Say it with a wink, you'll never get a bitch fit.

    Example 2: Let's say she had a funky dress on. I'd say, "That's a VERY interesting dress, do you shop at the thrift store often?... "

    Hot girls have guys kissing their ass 24/7. So this sets you apart, very alpha (balsy), makes you look cool, shows you think independently, and NOT seeking her approval- which may be the most important.

    Sends all the right signals.

    Don't compliment bare. Ever.

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    Default Re: Facebook opener friend of a friend

    Wow brandon, great advice for facebook!!! lately I have just been giving out non physical related compliments. "I like the style you chose in this pic' blah blah

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    Default Re: Facebook opener friend of a friend

    after I get them on my friends list should i post on there actual page or do i just go to messages from there? not trying to look creepy.

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    Default Re: Facebook opener friend of a friend

    ah im sure we've all been there, not that i know much about much yet and all ic an tell you is what iv been told from mPUA rather then experince but any port ey?

    I think the main issue you have here is that you didnt do it yourself, its 101 that women love confidense, asking your friend to introduce you to a mutual is just asbad as doing it on anight out, having your friend shyingly waddle up to a stranger and say my friend really likes you is hardly going to make a great romance noval!
    i feel facebook and the like is harder the the real world for some reasons and easier for others, certenly openers make it harder but if you get a good one especialy a plauseable one, you will be fine. the idea is(or what i do and have done) is that i open plausability then start the casual conversation. after that iv made up some excuse and left. essentially make the pressense known.
    A day or so later start the conversationa gain(assuming it went well enough and she wasnt just complelly creepted out) play it long term!
    this isnt a club or a cafe where you have to make or break of afew minutes of diolog, you can take your time and aslong as you dont come on too strong you can build real attraction, aslong as you dont leave it to long and become "just a friend".
    my advice to you if you so take it, treat her like anyone else, doesnt matter if you fail, chalk it to experince. take it slow and make it casual. connect slowly wheny ou get a hook you can build rappore and eventually meet her but the issue is its so much harder with dhv's too but you'll have to do your best! Best of luck

    Bradders.

    on a side note, the opner cant be the same stuff for clubs, try the "looking for a friend thing - oh thought you were someone else,was looking for a girl i met last night you looked similer, or maybe leave that out try just the oops wrong person sorry, with an added silly reason why. whatever you'd like really just aslong as its plauseable otherwise your out! on the otherhand could be honest say you thought she was attractive and see where that gets you but verging that close to beta males may land you in a cold shower faster then the prior.


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