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    Hey guys,

    so right now, I met a HB9 at a club, and she really digs me and all but there's a problem, she's too friendly and is hard to pull any PUA skills because she's not receptive to it, she's a little socially awkward, so it's hard to keep conversations going.. but she has been very comfortable talking to me through text messages... how can I escalte things with someone whose very difficult to communicate with? what can I say that works with a general populations of HB9s?

    she has said "i like you" on text, and put a picture of me and her on her profile picture on facebook. Things are going well, what are some next steps to escalate things fast?

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    Default Re: socially awkward

    Are you just vibing or following some method?
    Keep it real!

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    Default Re: socially awkward

    vibing

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    Default Re: socially awkward

    How is she socially awkward? How is she difficult to communicate with?

    It sounds like you're doing well, but the relationship happens in "real life", not text data world. So you're going to have to pry her from that medium of confidence. I need to know more before I can give you good advice.

    But don't do the same thing she is (pics and whatnot), don't let her feel comfortable in thinking she's "got you".

    I'll let you describe it more, then I'll reiterate better advice.

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    Default Re: socially awkward

    she doesnt know how to dance, she doesnt know how to be flirty, everyoine is treated like a friend....

    i was being playful and said.. let's get a coffee and enjoy the sun at the beach and she responds with .. "oh, I make my own coffee everyday, no need to buy that shit" ....

    in real conversation it's like an interview conversation question and closed answers..... i think Kino would be best.. but how??

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    Default Re: socially awkward

    Her being that way could be an okay thing, because I think you may be able to kind of "mold her" into the type of person you want, if you've established yourself as the man in the relationship and done all the important thing UP FRONT. If she said that coffee shit to me, I'd say, "great, you can get up early and make US coffee" (then go into telling her how you want yours!).. It's attraction building stuff. Anyways, try playing 20 questions with her. In person. Where she can't hide. Make a rule that there are no repeat questions. So anything you ask her, she can't ask back and so forth. It becomes strategic. Start by asking her how many boyfriends she's had. It should get sexual not too far from there. Blend into it slowly. Ask her where the craziest place she's ever had sex was.... Yada yada. Then once you're there, don't let up.

    Kino, yes... Insert it wherever you want in the game. It would be excellent for building comfort, while your humor and wit builds attraction in the game itself. Don't forget to make fun of all her answers, just do so in a funny way. Maybe play it in close proximity, so you can wrap an arm around her easily, or kiss her neck if she says she's ticklish there... lol... (get it?)

    Good luck man

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    Default Re: socially awkward

    If she's socially akward take her to places where their aren't many people and win her trust...sure you can Kino but don't do it till the point that you freak her out just win her trust then you can get her...and for the texting it's okay but it's real easy getting into the friend zone sometimes by texting

    Good luck! Best wishes


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