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    Default UNS UNS LOUD UNS CLUNSBS UNS UNS WHAT? I SAID LOUD CLUBS!

    seriosuly this is an issue i have that has cost me at least 1 open(not alot but hey its still enough to be an issue) and certenly my 'wingman' in training im teaching about the game, but he complains about clubs being tooloud and not bieng able to talk to people and it kill shis game and that pisses me off becasue he doesnt get any better. but i have to agree sometimes its damn hard to listen to agirl

    i 5 set'd by myself and it was going very well but it bit me in the arse when a girl mis-heard a neg as a sure to god insult, i even did the unthinkable and said dont worry im kidding your lovely, but it wasnt the dlv that got it, it was the idea t hat beacsue of the music, she couldnt sense the tone of voice, and come now, THats damn important in sarging no mistake!!#

    so for futur mistakes and to get my 'wingman' to be out of the excuse gutter, give me some advice you gents use when pulling in loud clubs and i dont want to hear
    "take toa quiet part of the club"
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    "take them outside"

    we should know Isolation isnt soemthing you do off the bat - im not talking about hitting on girls ONLY in quiet bits either, so leave out the"forget em till they move to abetter part" if it was that simple im already sorted, but some clubs have no smoking area or quiet part worth being in or taht doesnt ruint he game, so advice,
    advice in all forms!
    "It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most
    responsive to change." Charles Darwin

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    Default Re: UNS UNS LOUD UNS CLUNSBS UNS UNS WHAT? I SAID LOUD CLUBS!

    I too, have this problem!

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    Default Re: UNS UNS LOUD UNS CLUNSBS UNS UNS WHAT? I SAID LOUD CLUBS!

    Dude if you find the answer let me know. This is what i hate about clubs b/c i for one do not speak very loudly- which im working on - but it has cost me many times.

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    Default Re: UNS UNS LOUD UNS CLUNSBS UNS UNS WHAT? I SAID LOUD CLUBS!

    I think I've answered to a question similar to a topic you once started, Bradders.

    I think I see where you come from. Instead of focusing on having fun and just go with the flow, you basically set yourself up for failure. Maybe expecting too much of a given situation, maybe being unconsciously over-eager to close ( no matter what the type of close ), maybe having a scarcity mentality, maybe even approaching the wrong way even though you know it's right.

    The thing is Club game is hilariously easy, once you know how to use the seeming "disadvantage" of the club being too loud to your advantage.

    First and foremost, get a grip on your brain and suggest to it that wherever you are, you are there to have fun, not to pick up. It is THE most important aspect of game, often overlooked even by the greats.

    Second of all, I really hate to break it to you, but you DO have to bring them outside and/or take them to a quieter part of the club, if you haven't got your dancing up to par. THIS ( dancing ) usually gets me the attention I need and have been opened by HB's ( even Hired Guns ) in the most unusual and/or creative ways possible.

    The thing is you have to have a strong frame from the get-go to get to Isolation as quickly as possible. Isolation has happened to me in less than 5 minutes, the HB's sometimes even initiating the isolation BECAUSE they can't hear you.

    And finally, learn how to adapt to situations. When life throws you a lemon, snarl to it knowingly and say CHALLENGE ACCEPTED !...and make grape juice out of the lemon.

    Here's an example :

    PUA : Particularly nasty weather.
    HB : yeah, weather sucks bla bla
    PUA : What? Why are you talking about the weather? I said "Tickle your ass with a feather". Dude, that club fucked you big time. Your hearing, that is.

    It's all a matter of attitude and how you see things.

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    Default Re: UNS UNS LOUD UNS CLUNSBS UNS UNS WHAT? I SAID LOUD CLUBS!

    Dance floor son. Soo much easier because when a girl starts dancing with you a kiss close is a sure thing. I don't know how it goes in the UK but where I'm from, I just get up on the dancefloor and move around with your mates with good energy (don't dance properly as it looks like you're trying too hard). I like to smile and stare at a girl when i'm dancing and if the response is positive go over and start dancing with her. I'm sure you're well versed enough in the game to know NOT to do what most guys do and try and start grinding a chick from the back lololol.

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    Default Re: UNS UNS LOUD UNS CLUNSBS UNS UNS WHAT? I SAID LOUD CLUBS!

    I crave more dance floor tips.

    my wings are very leery to just go dance with a bunch of guys. What should we be doing?

    what if I am flying solo?

    I tend to dance/walk across the floor to get to other side as an excuse to be there and see what's around

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    Default Re: UNS UNS LOUD UNS CLUNSBS UNS UNS WHAT? I SAID LOUD CLUBS!

    after a few nights when i started, i learned that visual signals were all you could count on in such a setting. its definitely valuable (going clubbing) as a training aid, because it almost forces your need to express yourself. I dont know about others, but i do not tread those waters again, just filling a night with her seeing my mouth flap and just hear music, she says what, and then i say what


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