Look i know im not the most experinced guy here, and i dont want to tell everyone what they should or shouldnt do but im simply annoyed with some openers that start with
"im sorry but"
what the hell? has anyone here read the surggested reading? sorry
let me cool off! nothing agsait you guys do what works, and starting withs orry is by no means a deal break but if to be the most efficent PUA's i really do recooment you read either a book on sales techniques or indeed "Introduction to NLP"
heres the deal
starting any open or indeed anything! with Sorry, hate to bother, excuse me and the like gives the impression that you need to excuse yourself(mind the repetision please )
i was taught this when iw as a door to door salesman, essentialy we had to get across as soon as possible we were equals and not trying to sell them something lol(sound familier) if the fisrt thing you open with is "sorry" it will automatically give them the powe becasue already YOUR bothering THEM and the time THEY give YOU is what THEY feel they should give YOU!
the power should be yours, if you find you cant help yourself, and sometimes i do, i skim over it as fast as possible. i find starting with the false time constraint gives the impressionthat your not barging in but also that you arnt giving them power, be casue you've already decided your going to leave before they can!
i hope this helped! but i find it more effienct then building yourself back up from the power in their court, they have enough power, lets get some back