I new here. I am at this point in time more interested in actually turning one of he girls that i like into a GF than being a PUA. so this may be in the wrong section but the troubble I am having is talking to some girls.
I have no fear of aproaching and talking with them getting conversation started is easy for me however i seem to have a hard time keeping their attention. I seem to run out of things to say as my questions run into a dead end or something and get lost in the conversation. For example here is what happened to me today.
I went up two girls at two differint times and this is how they went.
Both times a friend was talking to them (coincidence not set up) so i went up and started talking to her about class and stuff and ignored the target for the first minuet then introduced myself to the target. Both times the girls seemed to like me as they giggled when i said or did something funny smiled when i talked to them and seemed interested. However after a little bit they didn't seem as interested and i kinda ran out of things to say and they started to talk to other friends. Would still respond well when i said something but i couldn't get something to get her to focus her attention on me for very long
Things probably went better with the first than the 2nd. The first seemed more responsive to what i said than the second but the second showed also showed signs of intrest like flipping hair, playing with ears, brushing and striating dress, and constantly smiling but was not as responsive to what i said as the other. I did playfully neg the 1st a few times (talking about how many she had was a similar pattern said she must be obsessed with it) when the conversation got dull so maybe that had something to do with.
Both showed possible interest and got one on facebook now. Not at all a failure but i would have liked to have kept their interest more and kept the conversation going on longer.
Getting a girl into you and to go out with you is a little harder than picking one up at the bar no matter how hot they are.