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    Default Gain and display worth to your target and a group

    I am looking to create a relationship rather than a hot score right now and need help. I have no problem approaching a girl and flirting/neging however I seem to not be able to really keep her interest and I seem to fall out of the conversation in a group and get kind of ignored and when I ask her a question or saysomething she just kind of answers or adresses then start talking to everyone else.

    This may be to me asking the wrong thing or not displaying worth to her and the group. So what is an easy way to gain something that would be intestine to everyone display my worth without being too random or something.

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    Default Re: Gain and display worth to your target and a group

    One thing that works for me is doing IVD's. Like the cube and all sort of games like this. It gets the attention you want and it dhv's you rather nicely.

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    Default Re: Gain and display worth to your target and a group

    Quote Originally Posted by Sitfab View Post
    One thing that works for me is doing IVD's. Like the cube and all sort of games like this. It gets the attention you want and it dhv's you rather nicely.
    This is great for when you are meeting a girl for the first time and trying to get them interested with a first impression, or when you already have their attention however not for my circumstance. I doubt i could get this girl's attention long enough to get the game going and it would be awkward to suggest it in a group set up where they are talking about something.

    My problem is everyone is talking about something and i am some what ignored when i try to chime in it doesn't really result in anything where people become interested in what i have to say. They just simply address it and move on.

    I want to have something about me that grabs attention or get more attention when i speak to the group.

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    Default Re: Gain and display worth to your target and a group

    I completely disagree. Works just as well in Day 2 type of stuff. And it suits your situation rather well. Just let them have their discussion while you pretend to check your phone for a text. She will undoubtedly ask you what are you doing. And then you can transition to IVD's. I've done something similar to this while on a trip, the group all paid attention to me, when literally 1 min earlier I was ignored. Works just as well.

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    Default Re: Gain and display worth to your target and a group

    Quote Originally Posted by Sitfab View Post
    I completely disagree. Works just as well in Day 2 type of stuff. And it suits your situation rather well. Just let them have their discussion while you pretend to check your phone for a text. She will undoubtedly ask you what are you doing. And then you can transition to IVD's. I've done something similar to this while on a trip, the group all paid attention to me, when literally 1 min earlier I was ignored. Works just as well.
    some what tried this and it didnt work i was on the phone and they really didnt say anything to me.

    that would work perfect on another group of girls i know however since there is so much commotion in this group and they are set in on what they are talking about its hard to get the targets attention.

    like i said i have used this with success with other smaller groups but it doesnt work here for some reason. probably because they already have so much to talk about with each other. just wondering how i can do something to make myself stand out

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    Default Re: Gain and display worth to your target and a group

    i will reserve my input for the moment

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    Default Re: Gain and display worth to your target and a group

    thanks

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    Default Re: Gain and display worth to your target and a group

    Brada again refering you to THE LIQUID COURAGE THEORY and my thread called WHAT I REALISED WHILE WATCHIN A CARTOON,you think it wont work so if you use it ,you wont be INCHARGE cause you doubt it so it wont be projected confidently so it wont work ,but had you been drunk you would not care what you say ,everything would be said confidently ,you would be in charge ,then from there you would find things to sponge off. Let me give you my theory on pick up ,use skills as the cards in your deck ,but like in a poker game ,use routines as the 'fake' gestures and facial expression you use to throw people ,that you use to bluff ,but knowing you can back it up with skill. Develop your conversation skills use the cube ,do it wit confidence ,making eye contact and all that alpha body language then use that skill to back up the routine.
    Dont have routines as the cards in your deck ,have skill instead ,because once a routine is done ,its done ,you cant do it again in the same interaction ,but skills can be done over and over ,so then you could play a card twice.


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