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    Default there is a complicated girl in my class

    I'm in college and there is this girl in my class. We already exchanged numbers and I think she gave ioi's (during the class she was constantly looking at me and then when I look at her and smile she turns away and then all thing starts again) becouse of that I invited her to coffe and exchange numbers but i found out that she is very shy (she doesn't talk much she is just smiling ...) but on facebook is a whole different story. Well becouse now is the summer break and we live couple hours apart I text her from time to time and she text me back right away but her texts have no "soul" they are boring if you want. Also I can't get her to meet me, I thing face to face would be a whole different story.

    So, what can i do with this girl ? Should I just move on, she isn't interested or is she just shy ?

    Tnx for your answers

    matic

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    Default Re: complicated girl

    well i would always advise face to face then any other method of communication. but shy girls are difficult but dont worry about it!
    shy girls arnt just shy in communication they are with all their life aswell.
    but my current girlfriend is quite shy, though i would normaly turn ashy girl down, as teh game requires alot of feedback, give it ago anyway, meet her up and have an excellent date-game planned.
    you'll have to establish comfort and rappore with other mediums other then words, but still talk, you may have to tlak for her alot, which is normaly quite bad. but engage her, ask her questions, threads, tell your stories try and get them from her, i tried to make her come up with stories about random stuff around the room, essentially who put it there, why, why didd they ahve it etc, just funny little stuff that makes her use her head. kokolgy , if your intot hat iny our game wont really work and not really worth the effort, though if you run low of material go for it anyway.
    its alot of work but by all means put it in.

    best of luck
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    responsive to change." Charles Darwin

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    Default Re: complicated girl

    Try to flirt in your texts... boring texts receive boring responses man. what are you saying to her, and what is she responding to you in return? That is the real question. Hit me with some of that.

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    Default Re: complicated girl

    These kind of HB's tend to open up a whole lot more after you have sex with them. She definitely likes you, she's just afraid that you might see in her just sex and no relationship.

    Don't expect a whole different story face to face without proper strategy. I had a date not too long ago with a chick that barely talked. I felt like I was talking all alone. But somehow, she liked it and at least I got her talking the next day. She is still somewhat of a challenge, but that doesn't mean I can't up the game, a little. My friends dated her and they all complained that she doesn't talk. Well, she does now )

    Calculate your words, but not too much, that's all I have to say.

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    Default Re: there is a complicated girl in my class

    btw: sorry for my english, i'm not native speaker.

    "In The Tropics" : tnx for you reply. i do flirt via text, you know i tease her when i can, i also send some of texts that comunity recommends, i've read some books about texting. I don't have any examples of my own texts but as far as i know i didn't have any problems with texts with other girls.
    Her responses are boring you know couple words and absolutely not flirty.

    "Bradders" and "Sitfab" : First of all thank you for your answers but becouse you've dated or you still do a shy girl what strategy would you suggest. Probably too Direct Game will scare her or what ? Becouse i like to "play" direct and Kino escalate quickly, but in this case i shouldn't or what do you think ?

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    Default Re: there is a complicated girl in my class

    Direct Game is an option, if you re-frame it as she is the sexual predator. For example :

    "Dude, you plan on taking me on a walk to the forest? What, you want to **** me? Hey, if you want to **** me, at least do it right. Here's how : take a bottle of chloroform, a rag, when we're ALOOOOONE alone, put the rag with the chloroform on my face, then take me somewhere dark and r**e the sh1t out of me"

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    Default Re: there is a complicated girl in my class

    sitfab: that's a good one can't wait to see the look on her face when a tell her something like that


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