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Thread: College party game (kiss close/f-close)

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    Default College party game (kiss close/f-close)

    I need some structure on how to operate at parties. Any guidelines would help. I've been going out moderately for about a year now, but I'm still missing something.

    Specifically:

    1. Approaching/opening

    2. Isolation

    3. Making a connection /escalation

    4. Closing

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    Default Re: College party game (kiss close/f-close)

    Here's what I generally do. I'm a sophomore in college, i'm in a fraternity, and most of our parties are at the Fraternity house so I have "home" advantage . Thing about this is, most of a person's game is natural so you know that once you're thinking about what to do and how to do it, you're going to fail.

    I'm known as the loud, funny guy. I have lots of energy, and when I go downstairs to the party area where all the girls/fraternity brothers are, I start off by talking to a few of the brothers that i'm closest with first. from there, you'll have a few girls here and there that are with the brothers, so i'll start teasing/flirting with these girls. No interview questions, hell most of the time these girls start showing interest in me before I know their names.

    From there, i'll look around and notice that a few of the girls sitting around are starting to notice me, some usually start whispering and laughing with eachother. I go to these gossiping girls and ill talk with them, **tease them**, have one of them dance with me for a while, but **never trying to close, at least not this early**. Have these girls introduce you to their friends, and repeat.

    Once you do this, eventually you'll have at least 1-2 girls that will show good interest in you. Most of the time, I don't realize this until I pay attention a bit. From there, I ask one of them to go outside with me and from there, I escalate the Kino a bit. Specifically, try hugging her around her lower back when you're talking to her, face to face. If she's into you, she'll return the kino and usually go in for the first kiss. The rest is up to you and how you compose yourself/control the situation.

    The key is to be confident and smooth. Dress well and comfortably (and attractively) so that you're not self-conscious about anything. I generally wear a light colored button up Polo with Sperrys and pleated khakis/a belt. Nothing should feel out of the ordinary or awkward. if it is, you're going about it wrong.

    Some more tips:

    - have a group of friends, don't be that creeper who's at a party alone
    - focus exclusively on the girl, don't share your class schedule (who gives a sh1t), your major (again, who cares), or any cool stories you might have unless you feel it's necessary. I generally flirt and tease, so none of that has any room in what I do.
    - Hell, have sex appeal. Learn that and live it, if you don't have sex appeal you won't hook up, girls won't find you attractive.


    This framework is what I use all the time, and i've used it tonight which ended up with me taking 8 girls with one of my fraternity brothers to one of the bars downtown, and with me hooking up with the hottest one out of all of them.

    Good luck kiddo

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    Default Re: College party game (kiss close/f-close)

    ^ question...when you ask the girl to go outside what do you talk to her about to move in closer to touch hug then kiss

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    Default Re: College party game (kiss close/f-close)

    Phenom,

    I'm only in my second semester of college, but I've been to a fair amount of college parties, especially frat parties as Onyx mentions.

    Most of what Onyx says is true to college party game, girls on the whole are younger and therefore generally less mature and more shallow than those you would meet at a bar or nightclub in a city. Obviously this is not true for everyone you meet, as I have found some mature, genuine people at frat parties. That being said, there are a number of modifications to your game that you need to make to be successful with these girls.

    First off, you still have to be the alpha male (the loud, funny guy), make the decisions, lead your group, put yourself at the center of attention, etc.

    However, many girls you will meet at parties like this are quite shallow about appearance, and not only physical attractiveness. For example, I met a girl at one party, we had a good connection, etc., and we agreed to meet up the next week. When I met up with her there, much to my surprise, she blew me off. The reason: I had been wearing a Polo hat at the last party and she thought I was a blond (I have dark brown hair). At the next one I didn't have the hat on and overall wasn't dressed as nicely, and she really liked blondes. (This was entirely my mistake to feel like I didn't have to dress nicely, but it highlights how much young college girls value appearance.)

    Third, SOCIAL VALUE! This is really, really important in college. If you want to see just how important, show up to a frat alone, don't talk to anyone for an hour, and then try to approach someone. I would doubt that 1 out of 100 girls would give you the time of day. I personally always go to college parties with at least one other person and usually more, just because social value is so so important in these situations. Not only that, when I get there I try to make friends with the brothers at the house, other people in the keg line, the DJ, just everyone, so that I have more social value heading later into the night. The first few parties I went to, I didn't do this and had a very hard time. So be warned.

    Finally, a lot of "canned" PUA material, the cube, 5 questions, strawberry fields, photo routine, has its place in the PUA world, but definitely not at college parties. Because everyone is usually pretty trashed, banter/flirting (but please don't talk about schoolwork whatever you do) is usually much more effective. Keep it short and playful.

    If you have most of the things above working, Isolation isn't particularly hard, you can really just say something really basic like, I have something awesome to show you, follow me, and lead her to the side of the dance floor (or usually there are a ton of couches upstairs in a frat, use these to your advantage). If you don't have the above things working well, no elaborate scheme will work to Isolate.

    That turned out longer than expected, but I figured as a college PUA I should share my 2C.

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    Default Re: College party game (kiss close/f-close)

    be natural and approach a lot of woman. like you've heard a million times. it's a numbers game.

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    Default Re: College party game (kiss close/f-close)

    since canned openers don't work on college girls, what do you guys think would be a good opener then?

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    Default Re: College party game (kiss close/f-close)

    niq,

    First and foremost, remember that most of the girls you'll meet will be fairly um, intoxicated at these parties. This means that anything that takes longer than around 15 seconds to say probably won't work so well.
    So keep it short and just say something natural. Obviously this means there is no "right" way to open at college parties, but here are some things that I say/do to open:
    1. Standing in line: Mention something offhand about the surroundings. If she responds, introduce yourself, and start running some short routines.
    2. If there are couches: You can literally just sit down next to a girl and introduce yourself (don't be creepy about it and it works pretty well).
    3. On the dance floor: Can be the easiest opens. Dance up to a girl who is not already grinding (this is important: she can have a guy with her but she can't be grinding), and just start dancing with her. Introduce yourself and start making conversation so you're not creepy of course.
    4. Or just walk up to a girl and say Hey, I'm being rude I haven't introduced myself, my name's ......

    IN SUMMARY: As long as you come off non-creepy and non-threatening, girls at college parties can be opened easily with just about whatever stupid thing you can thing of.
    It gets easier as the night goes on, that's why I use the first half hour or so to build social proof by talking to friends and making new ones.
    Opening is by far the easiest part of college party game. Making out is the second easiest part. Actually getting a day two when half the time the girl you're talking to won't remember your conversation in 15 minutes, now that's a real challenge Good luck!

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    Default Re: College party game (kiss close/f-close)

    Quote Originally Posted by amazingJay View Post
    niq,

    First and foremost, remember that most of the girls you'll meet will be fairly um, intoxicated at these parties. This means that anything that takes longer than around 15 seconds to say probably won't work so well.
    So keep it short and just say something natural. Obviously this means there is no "right" way to open at college parties, but here are some things that I say/do to open:
    1. Standing in line: Mention something offhand about the surroundings. If she responds, introduce yourself, and start running some short routines.
    2. If there are couches: You can literally just sit down next to a girl and introduce yourself (don't be creepy about it and it works pretty well).
    3. On the dance floor: Can be the easiest opens. Dance up to a girl who is not already grinding (this is important: she can have a guy with her but she can't be grinding), and just start dancing with her. Introduce yourself and start making conversation so you're not creepy of course.
    4. Or just walk up to a girl and say Hey, I'm being rude I haven't introduced myself, my name's ......

    IN SUMMARY: As long as you come off non-creepy and non-threatening, girls at college parties can be opened easily with just about whatever stupid thing you can thing of.
    It gets easier as the night goes on, that's why I use the first half hour or so to build social proof by talking to friends and making new ones.
    Opening is by far the easiest part of college party game. Making out is the second easiest part. Actually getting a day two when half the time the girl you're talking to won't remember your conversation in 15 minutes, now that's a real challenge Good luck!
    thx for the tips, much appreciated! would you suggest peacocking at a a college party?

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    Default Re: College party game (kiss close/f-close)

    Glad I could help.
    It depends on your personal preference and what you're comfortable with, but as a rule of thumb you want to stand out a little and have a distinct style. I wouldn't recommend peacocking to the extent that Mystery does or anything, but a crazy shirt or a cool hat work pretty well to grab people's attention. A few things my friends and I wear out and regularly get compliments on:
    Sailor's hat
    Tiger T-shirt
    Patterned pants
    Polo hat worn backwards
    Flip-up Sunglasses
    Have fun with it, but remember only wear one "crazy" thing at a time, or you come off as just that, crazy.


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