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    dik111 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girlfriend knows about my past affairs

    Hello to all. I am in a critical problem. My new girlfriend knows my past affairs. She is very angry. Now what can i do because she did not want to talk with me.

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    Default Re: In this condition.

    Now, by affairs do you mean you cheated on her with someone else, or by affairs do you mean she knows your past and what you have done? If it is the latter, then why is it any of her business or problem. Sounds like she's incredibly insecure.

    I had an ex girlfriend who LIVED on the past. All she did was bring it up and dwell on things that happened 10 years ago. As if it mattered today. It didn't and doesn't.

    You have to realize, especially females, that EVERYONE comes with a past. You either accept it, or you can't. If you can't, as it seems she can't, then all it will do in the end is cause ALOT of problems. So save the agony and just tell her you either accept me for me or you don't. No one should be critically judged by what they have done in the past. In all honesty, I don't see why past relationships should even be a big deal in new relationships. I know a girl is a good girl to date when she doesn't ask me 300 questions about my past relationship and she doesn't sit there and bad mouth all her ex's. Then you know she is confident in who she is and what she can offer and she also shows she has trust in you as she does not want to know or care about your past (to a degree).

    Think of it like this... A) Did you physically or emotionally do anything directed to your new girlfriend to cause the anger she is exhibiting??? No
    B) Did you purposely do things in your past to maliciously hurt your new girlfriend, as if you knew you would end up with her on the day you did, knowing she would find out about your past??? No.
    C) So does she then have a right to be mad??? No.

    Girls are extremely insecure creatures. I guarantee that regardless if she tells you she understands and isn't mad in the end, it absolutely WILL cause problems in the near future.

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    Default Re: Girlfriend knows about my past affairs

    Seriously consider the quality of your relationship with this new girlfriend. If she is this obsessed about your previous relationships, she may extremely jealous, co-dependent, or both.

    There is nothing wrong with having slept with 1 woman, or 100 women. If she does not understand this, she is not mature.

    Sit down and talk to her, explain that you have had previous relationships, and ask her why it troubles her so much. Figure out what's really going on. If her behavior continues, then let me know.

    L.E.


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