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    LucasElliot is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default My System - See if it works for you...

    Alright,

    I've been through the whole gamut of PUA opening material. For the most part, too much stress is placed on the opening, the real work is what comes -after-.

    But the PRIMARY factor in the opening is comfort and proximity. Are you positioning yourself in an AWKWARD social situation.... Or, does she feel at ease when you speak to her? Secondly, is she naturally in your 'space', so it makes sense that you're speaking to her, or did you basically follow her, or track her down to find her like some kind of freak?

    Awkward: You walk straight for a girl you don't know, ask her something incongruent or forced. Likelihood of rejection is VERY high. All her alarm bells are going off. She is thinking "What does this guy want?" or "Is he hitting on me?"

    Awkward: You introduce yourself to someone in a forward manner.... out in 'daygame', at a coffee shop, etc. This is quite socially strange.

    Smooth: You look at a girl who is ALREADY standing near you. You use a basic but socially 'acceptable' opener, such as "Hey what's the occassion tonight?" Nothing fancy, just get 'in the door'. The real challenge is what you say next, keeping the conversation rolling, making banter, and most importantly projecting a 'sexy vibe'.

    That's right, your THOUGHTS are written on your face. The slightest bit of low self esteem... girls can sense! The more congruent you are to feeling good about yourself, the more your success will sky rocket. So whenever opening, remember the REAL secret ingredient... which is vibe!

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    chickmagnet is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: My System - See if it works for you...

    Great advice Lucas. I find the more natural I am the more effective my approach is.

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    chickmagnet is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: My System - See if it works for you...

    I was just thinking this earlier today. I have been in sales my whole life and realized that a lot of what works in sales works with women. With that being said one of the simplest openings there is, is to say "hey what have you been doing?" in a manner that would imply you already know her. For some reason 90% of the resistance comes down and she may feel a little embarrassed that she doesn't know you. It works on customers when selling furniture where the majority of people will try to shrug you off with the phrase "just looking". That approach has helped me make sales I couldn't have otherwise made. Just one note I never tried it as a pickup line. Has anyone tried this? It seems to me that it would work.
    "If I asked them what they wanted, they would have said faster horses" -Henry Ford


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