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    Striker9 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default DONT RUIN A 'PERFECT' THING BY DEMANDING A RELATIONSHIP

    I always see guys posting friends zone this ,friends zone that .What is it that guys want ? The bragging rights of being called the boyfriend? Some of these guys actually lay these gals but want more .Thats where i want guys to change their mentality from aiming to be a 'bf' to being a lover because for one you are a pua u approach many gals ,if you a 'bf' the gal has the right to be angry and put you into the dog box but if you are a lover she has no right what so ever.

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    Default Re: DONT RUIN A 'PERFECT' THING BY DEMANDING A RELATIONSHIP

    It's more of people creating a fake relationship in their heads with a girl they really like. What ends up happening is the guy will really, really like a girl while she'll be slightly indifferent to him because she realizes that he really likes her.

    Hey most of the guys out there reading this, sound familiar?

    The key is really to go out, have solid confidence, and effortlessly game girls all around you. I don't ever go approach girls, I join a group of people and add something interesting to a discussion. from there, body language and confidence are all you need for girls to come to you. When you game and score with many girls, you realize there is NO SUCH THING as a friend zone for you.

    Since I always love to tie my posts with stories, take this last friday night for me. A girl who I knew as "just friends (and i'm fine with this with her specifically)", a solid HB10, recently started showing me good interest. Reason why? she would come over to the Fraternity house and ALWAYS see me with another, gorgeous girl that was into me. This last friday night, she saw me bring a girl more gorgeous than she was to the house.

    It's all about value. So, my advice to guys who are worried about friendzone shit.

    1- get rid of this stupid fantasizing and fake relationship stuff out of your head. Make it real and go talk to her, she really doesn't deserve to be put on a pedestal.

    2- Game girls. Don't approach though, learn natural game and be yourself. I guarantee you girls will make moves on you

    3- Don't give her too much attention. There's a good balance that's different with each girl.


    All I have to say.

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    Default Re: DONT RUIN A 'PERFECT' THING BY DEMANDING A RELATIONSHIP

    Quote Originally Posted by Striker9 View Post
    I always see guys posting friends zone this ,friends zone that .What is it that guys want ? The bragging rights of being called the boyfriend? Some of these guys actually lay these gals but want more .Thats where i want guys to change their mentality from aiming to be a 'bf' to being a lover because for one you are a pua u approach many gals ,if you a 'bf' the gal has the right to be angry and put you into the dog box but if you are a lover she has no right what so ever.
    i agree, i thought about it and yes its very agreeable to me.
    Damn you striker

    On facebook, the ITS COMPLICATED relationship status was designed for people like us

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    Default Re: DONT RUIN A 'PERFECT' THING BY DEMANDING A RELATIONSHIP

    Quote Originally Posted by Onyx View Post
    It's more of people creating a fake relationship in their heads with a girl they really like. What ends up happening is the guy will really, really like a girl while she'll be slightly indifferent to him because she realizes that he really likes her.
    thats subjective

    Hey most of the guys out there reading this, sound familiar?

    The key is really to go out, have solid confidence, and effortlessly game girls all around you. I don't ever go approach girls, I join a group of people and add something interesting to a discussion. from there, body language and confidence are all you need for girls to come to you. When you game and score with many girls, you realize there is NO SUCH THING as a friend zone for you.
    Thats pretty much still an approach. It all starts at the approach, you joined in on the set. However sometimes there will be the girl that you just really have to win and if she happens to be alone, what are you gonna do? follow her all day possibly enough and risk wasting the whole day?

    Reading body language can be tricky and new insight is looked into about body language even today, keeping up with some of the current Gurus, you start to realize youre still learning new stuff.

    To me theres a gauge for the whole thing, starting from acquaintance to friend to love interest to lover. Yup its been around alot, but even in those shorter gained relationships can you really say that you skipped from acquaintance to lover? Somewhere in there you DID cross into the friend zone. People shouldnt underestimate the friend zone, because there is always a definite PRO: you are off to a WAY better start than when you both never knew each other at all.

    It's all about value. So, my advice to guys who are worried about friendzone sh1t.

    1- get rid of this stupid fantasizing and fake relationship stuff out of your head. Make it real and go talk to her, she really doesn't deserve to be put on a pedestal.
    true...

    2- Game girls. Don't approach though, learn natural game and be yourself. I guarantee you girls will make moves on you
    approaching is an essential part of running game... you need to get her attention of anything you do will cross her mind.

    natural game cannot be learned. im an unnatural, i reinvented the wheel, started from scratch, and internalized all i know now. the whole game thing its NOT ME, but i DO succeed. PU isnt who i truly am, but im damn farking good at it.

    3- Don't give her too much attention. There's a good balance that's different with each girl.


    All I have to say.
    true

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    Default Re: DONT RUIN A 'PERFECT' THING BY DEMANDING A RELATIONSHIP

    Damn me wtf :-[


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