Women are my motivation. Yes, I do things in order to improve upon my self-worth. On the other hand, they are something to strive for in life. This is not just for sex and looking at beautiful bodies. Although, that is fine. There is plenty more to this as oppose to the physical attraction. I really believe that Tension and lack of self-worth definitely sets in when guys engage a girl or the group just for the sake of sex. Women are very smart and intuitive. They are able to read into that type of stuff.