Re: How to grow a pair and approach...
No matter what failure or rejection I am met with, they all pale in comparison to the self shame I feel in not knowing. I am more embarrassed in not trying.
I talk myself up to the point I owe it to them to offer myself. If they reject me, for whatever reason, it is their loss. Makes moving forward much easier. This attitude sometimes convinces them of the same thing and they change their disfavorable decision to one I find more to my liking.
I have failed more than most men have tried.
Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.