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    greg2222 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Meeting with group of girls

    I had lunch the other day with my friend and his girlfriend and all of her friends joined us. It was about 5 other girls. I was casually contributing to the conversation but I had difficulty coming up with things to say. Any advice on what to do in a situation like this?

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    Default Re: Meeting with group of girls

    Dude, u gotta take control of the group and just vibe with it. neg alot and keep eye contact on the one you want. Talk to her but mainly just Neg her friends and joke alot. If they talk about girl stuff just make it fun by saying "like o my god I hate when that happens" making fun of what they r saying. Try not to be awkward and don't hit on them at all. Just talk and act like You are not interested. Once they get comfortable with u Ur in, it will be easy too because Ur buddies girlfriend can hook u up with anyone of them u want.

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    Default Re: Meeting with group of girls

    Do you feel nevus when you talk to girls.Try to relax and be cool.Try to be friendly with them but do not boast.Girls like cool guys.

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    Default Re: Meeting with group of girls

    I think the advice to constantly neg the friends will alienate the group. And acting like your not interested will get you blown out of the water. Be in the moment, listen for keys to keep the conversation going, dig deep into it to build that emotional connection. If it is something you don't know, nod your head, keep you hands at your side, and listen. Keep eye contact. But challenge them a little too. Kino and push/pill a little.

    Just constantly negging, overdoing it will just get you in trouble I've found that approaching with routines etc like the mystery method just leads to finding girls who are flakes and doing routines who are not who you are. If you can observe and listen, you can build an emotional connection with a women and have them chase you where you can select which ones can fit into who you are. Its made my sex life that much greater. Why go out with a woman who gives you 60% effort and not 100%. Make her want to tear your clothes off.

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    Default Re: Meeting with group of girls

    talking a lot I think is over rated anyway. The body speaks better anyway. what I mean is you can not say much but if you eyes make contact (not too much though) and maybe even a few touches on the shoulder when making or agreeing with a point can be far more seductive than conversation. It really is less of what you say and more of how you say it. In fact I might go as far as to say that if you are nervous about conversation it might be better to say less with your mouth and more with your body langauge. clearly context matters here when I say that.


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