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    Raul is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I think i may have a problem...need advice

    Hi guys
    I need some advice on improving my conversation skills.....my mind goes full blank when I think about something to say to strangers
    I have that feeling of ''what i think now to say is boring'' but in the same time i think that the other person is boring ) i don't know what is happening to me,2 years ago i was the most wanted guy in school,i was alpha,the most funny guy,the most sexy,leader of the whole school......but like other good guys like me...they started playing video games like wow and since then i became more weirder
    I was playing everyday that game in the past 2 years....but this is offtopic now,so....Please help me guys with some books or something about being a social master.......i don't have any aa/body language/alpha/funny problems now cuz i quited playing that stupid game but i'm still weird at conversation
    I only know how to talk with my friends cuz i know them

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    Default Re: I think i may have a problem...need advice

    I know where ur coming from, that game can be quite socially damaging but there are ways to overcome it.

    A great way to start is by sharing stories. Tell stories about something that your friend did for example. Stories are great because they dhv, AND because your telling the story it makes you seem like the expert on the matter. On that note, become the expert of your stories.

    At least half the battle is up in your head, so another good tip would be to take some deep breaths and make sure you are relaxed: mentally and physically.

    I think the best advice that I've heard about conversations is: a conversation can either be fun or boring. So if its not fun then its not a big deal, just move on.

    Lastly, remove any doubts about yourself or your conversation skills. It's just plain unhealthy and it will translate to your game.

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    Default Re: I think i may have a problem...need advice

    Yeah. I think that this is more of a confidence problem for you right now. I mean, I play video games and I have no problems interacting with people and keeping conversation going. I am not saying you are not confident, I am saying you aren't confident in your conversational skills, and you are over thinking it.

    I think you need to get some canned material so that when your conversation runs dry you have a few stories in your back pocket to pull out and keep it rolling.
    There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.

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    Default Re: I think i may have a problem...need advice

    lol i think i solved the problem.....thanks guys a lot for sharing,i really mean it
    today i had 10 kiss close with different girls in school and i'm kind of a rockstar in my class
    it was all about a confidence problem i think....i wasn't even trying to even go up to a girl and say hi
    after hi i had no problem.....it was easy as pie,i didn't knew that if i had confidence my conversation skills it will come up naturally but it did

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    Default Re: I think i may have a problem...need advice

    Glad to hear it man! Keep it going!
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