Proper way to open in the bar scene.
I have been spending my weekends going out to bars and sarging with my wing. What I have noticed is that the best way to get attraction started is to open everyone. I go up to everyone I can and start conversations. It makes it look like you know everyone and that you are social. This is called building social proof.
Then when you go up and start a conversation with the girl you want, you should talk to everyone in her group first and overcome the obstacles. They will not think you are strange because you are talking to everyone. First give a false time constraint so that they don't think that you are going to be hanging around them forever ("Hey I need to get back to my friends, but let me ask you real quick.."), and make sure that your body language enforces that approach. Then when you go up address the entire group (guys included if it is a mixed set). Make sure you also use a root (reason why you are going up to them) and then ask something that sounds like you need the groups opinion. Example: "Hey what do you all think if a girl you just met likes a picture on your facebook, and then likes another one 2 hours later. Did she look at your profile twice, or for 2 hours strait? Make sure it is something that will drum up conversation, and then constantly seem like you could walk away any time.
Once things are going good and you are in a good conversation with the group you then need to work to Isolate your target and start building comfort.
Last edited by In The Tropics; 10-18-2011 at 09:15 AM.
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