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    MisterFabulous is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I can't approach my dreamgirl

    Ok so ill try to be as detailed as possible. Firstly I am in my second year of college, and have been living in the same house off campus. I never really noticed this girl until about halfway throught last year. We would commonly wait at the bus stop at the same time in the morning but I was usually off in my own thoughts so I never really gave her a second thought. Then one day it was raining and I noticed she didn't have an umbrella so I offered her mine and realized how cute she was (she shyly accepted btw) unfortunatly when the next quarter started I never saw her at the bus stop again. I have noticed once in a while this year I will cross her path on campus but I can never really think of a way to stop and talk to her (she has headphones in a lot but that's not really a problem). This year I started learning a little more about pua so I feel like I have confidence in talking to her, I just haveno idea how to start it or how to relate it to seeing her again.

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    MisterFabulous is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I can't approach my dreamgirl

    Please tell me if i'm wrong but i was thinking after i opened i could say something like "haven't we met before?" and then continue from there? im still a complete novice with PUA

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    Default Re: I can't approach my dreamgirl

    Quote Originally Posted by MisterFabulous View Post
    Please tell me if i'm wrong but i was thinking after i opened i could say something like "haven't we met before?" and then continue from there? im still a complete novice with PUA

    I would just act like you already know her. Say something like "Hey I haven't seen you at the bus stop in a long time, how are you doing?" Then it won't seem like you are hitting on her. You could then say something like "My friends and I are going to X, you should bring a friend and come along." If she accepts then you have your chance to get to know her better.
    There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.

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    Default Re: I can't approach my dreamgirl

    @In The Tropics yea i was actually thinking saying something along those lines but then i thought it mite be kinda creepy considering that the only time i talked to her was about a year ago now and it wasnt really even talkin i just asked if she wanted to use my umbrella, haha but yea like i said im still a novice

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    Default Re: I can't approach my dreamgirl

    Quote Originally Posted by MisterFabulous View Post
    @In The Tropics yea i was actually thinking saying something along those lines but then i thought it mite be kinda creepy considering that the only time i talked to her was about a year ago now and it wasnt really even talkin i just asked if she wanted to use my umbrella, haha but yea like i said im still a novice
    Well alternately, you could say "Hey I need to get to class, but real quick aren't you the girl that stole my umbrella at the bus stop?" then say "Well how have you been, bus stop?" Then she will tell you her name and maybe ask yours. Then from there you can say "We should continue this conversation at another time and get her number."
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    Default Re: I can't approach my dreamgirl

    New question. I have not yet seen her at the bustop again, but I have noticed once in a while I will walk past her on campus. I feel like it wouldn't be ideal but is there anyway I can talk to her? I especially want to know for this week because my friend is having a party and I figured it wuld be an easy way to get to know her if I invited her + display social proof


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