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    Default difference between talking and flirting

    hi

    i was wondering what the difference between talking and flirting is?

    or is talking to a girl automatically flirting?

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    Default Re: difference between talking and flirting

    I don't even know where to begin this question is so noob...

    Leil lowndes wrote a good book "how to make anyone fall in love with you". Note that this book is 100% beginner AFC stuff, much of it you will throw away when you learn real game, but it will certainly help you answer this question
    I highly recommended it for you
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    Default Re: difference between talking and flirting

    Talking is normal conversation like talking to your best friend, pal or buddy and family, flirting is touching, communicating on a sexual level,heavy eye contact ,tons of Kino , sexual innuendos
    "Give her the gift of missing you" david d

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    Default Re: difference between talking and flirting

    Yeah man...

    If a girl is touching you. Asking you A LOT of questions. Teases you a lot, and she is giving you ioi's that is flirting....

    anything else is not.
    There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.

    Be the flame, not the moth.

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    Default Re: difference between talking and flirting

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    I don't even know where to begin this question is so noob...

    Leil lowndes wrote a good book "how to make anyone fall in love with you". Note that this book is 100% beginner AFC stuff, much of it you will throw away when you learn real game, but it will certainly help you answer this question
    I highly recommended it for you
    The hell do you mean by "real game"?!

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    Default Re: difference between talking and flirting

    Lowndes discusses very simple stuff, see, connect, approach, flirt, find commonalities

    By "real game" I mean the more formal steps, using proper openers, giving false time constraints, teasing, negs, disqualifying yourself from your target, role reversal
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    Default Re: difference between talking and flirting

    Quote Originally Posted by MrPieMan82 View Post
    The hell do you mean by "real game"?!
    Well you don't know when a girl is flirting with you so... (no offense) He prob. means.

    1.) When you know how to approach a girl.

    2.) build attraction.

    3.) hook a set.

    4.) isolate your target.

    5.) Number Close and Kiss close.

    6.) Call a girl back and set up a second meet up.

    7.) F-Close.

    8.) Have multiple LTR's the correct way.

    9.) Another good thing for you to learn is how to use disqualifiers, IOD's and IOI's at the right time. And how to NEG a girl appropriately. (This is part of #2, building attraction)

    That is how the game is played and what "real game" is.

    If you have any questions about any of that I don't mind helping you with them.

    Although your response is sarcastic and defensive, I am taking it literally to help you since you truly don't know.
    Last edited by In The Tropics; 10-31-2011 at 07:02 PM. Reason: typo
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    Default Re: difference between talking and flirting

    Quote Originally Posted by In The Tropics View Post
    Well you don't know when a girl is flirting with you so... (no offense) He prob. means.

    1.) When you know how to approach a girl.

    2.) build attraction.

    3.) hook a set.

    4.) isolate your target.

    5.) Number Close and Kiss close.

    6.) Call a girl back and set up a second meet up.

    7.) F-Close.

    8.) Have multiple LTR's the correct way.

    9.) Another good thing for you to learn is how to use disqualifiers, IOD's and IOI's at the right time. And how to NEG a girl appropriately. (This is part of #2, building attraction)

    That is how the game is played and what "real game" is.

    If you have any questions about any of that I don't mind helping you with them.

    Although your response is sarcastic and defensive, I am taking it literally to help you since you truly don't know.
    Sarcasm is difficult to detect over the Internet. I seriously meant that in a "what do you mean?" sense. I figured that knowing how to flirt with a girl is an actual part real game. Honestly, I know about everything you just mentioned but I do have trouble figuring out exactly when to do what and how to transition. Because of that, I tend to open and then lose control of the conversation.

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    Default Re: difference between talking and flirting

    That is a better question. Someone put a good post up on a list of IOIs. Look for it and review it to help understand indications of your progress

    In general you flirt or reward a girl with Kino / move forward with numbers after SHE has done something of value (not when you have) in this way you reinforce the sense that you are interested in her because she is cool / smart / funny and not just for the heck of it
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    Default Re: difference between talking and flirting

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    Lowndes discusses very simple stuff, see, connect, approach, flirt, find commonalities

    By "real game" I mean the more formal steps, using proper openers, giving false time constraints, teasing, negs, disqualifying yourself from your target, role reversal
    I understand. It's only a smaller part of the whole puzzle.


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