Hey all, I have kind of an unconventional question here.
I have solid game, but I've been in a relationship for three years so it's not something I've gotten much use out of recently. My friend has been pretty beat up about his girlfriend leaving him several months ago and he can't seem to get back on his feet; I've tried winging for him but every time the target ends up coming on to me. He always attracts hot girls- I don't know what it is, he's kind of chubby but they just kind of flock to him, maybe they think he's cute- but he can't seem to make a close.
I can't give specifics from memory, but I do think a big problem is my disinterest is causing attraction in the targets. How does one "turn off" their AMOG tendencies? I guess I can sum it all up like this...
How do I open for him and how do I interact with the target group from that point on? Should I just use a "my friend and I need a woman's opinion, is it okay for men to carry satchels" or something then let him lead the conversation from that point on? (He actually had success once when we were passing a target and I got her attention and said "Hi, have you met my friend?" then just walked away without saying a word.)
I'd be interested in winging for some of my other friends but I don't know if the problem is me or him. I've tried searching the forum, but everything that comes up is "I need a wingman". I want to be a wingman, but I have no idea how. Help!