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    Default Effects of direct day gaming

    So let's say our friend Joe is direct day gaming. He walks up to a girl, and says "hi". She looks at him, and Joe continues the conversation by saying "I thought you looked cute, so I came over to talk to you". They introduce and Joe asks the girl to tell something about herself, out of which a conversation occurs.

    Now that Joe has opened in such a way, how does it affect the rest of the conversation, compared to an indirect opener/"just a chat"?
    Will it be easier to number-close?
    Should he Kino faster?
    After opening, should Joe ask the girl to tell something about herself, or should he start talking about a topic of his own?
    What are the main guidelines for direct day gaming?

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    Default Re: Effects of direct day gaming

    I usually just keep a "friendly" and non-threatening and non-sexual conversation going. This may be the best tactic, as they're already buying into your sexual frame when they accept the opener. But I might be wrong. Gonna try out a sexual come-on for sure.

    Numberclose is definitely easier when a direct opener is succesful, BUT you need to pay attention you talk to the girl for about 15 minutes so the number doesn't turn out to be a flake. Get her to qualification and comfort quickly.

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    Default Re: Effects of direct day gaming

    From what I've picked up I agree. But if I might add my interpretation it seems to me as if the conversation needs to non-threatening or non-sexual BUT it doesn't mean you can't come of as being attracted to her and sexual. Such as an "accidental" Kino or flirtatiously ambiguous statements and tones.

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    Default Re: Effects of direct day gaming

    I have had success this week (relatively speaking) with the lunch line approach. It was perfect as a girl cut in front of me while apologizing. I opened with a decent neg: "I can't believe you cut in front of me". She then gave me the reason why, and we talked about her salad, then her, then her favorite lunch spots, and then more about her. I didn't Number Close, cause, to be quite honest, I was a little in shock that the stuff I have read in this forum and books worked so effectively! So yeah, kind of wimped out, but I am just glad I made my move with positive results.

    I like this environment because you instantly have a conversation piece: food. Food conversations always lead to favorite eating place discussions, which can open up for a nice number close.

    I'll be trying this again today, can't wait!

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    Default Re: Effects of direct day gaming

    I find direct day gaming harmless, and more effective to me
    Because there are a lot of fish in the sea! - Shark

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    Default Re: Effects of direct day gaming

    Use assumptions to keep the conversation going don't Kino just talk normaly work on getting her talking about herself then slip in some dhv stories

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    Thumbs up Re: Effects of direct day gaming

    I totally agree, Shark. What I especially like about day-gaming is that, if you like your job, you are already "on." What I mean is, I like my job a lot, so by lunch, I am already in a very alpha-motivated state. I am naturally entering an establishment with a big smile, I have some good clothes on, and I truly don't care if I close or not, because, I am already in a winning state!

    I especially like the day-game because I work in an area where there are a lot of government types that all think they are super-covert or super-spies. As such, they all act very reserved and the women tend to look bored around them. Why? Because this is DC, and EVERYONE (or just about) works for the government. My point is, I have recognized my environment and have started peacocking with my attitude and approach. I am careful not to go overboard on my attire, but I do change it up and keep it unique, while still being professional (for the day game).

    I think the point I am coming to here is that with a day game, I have noticed, it is easier to recognize your enviroment and there tends to be less competition. Not only that, you have way more time to work it.

    I guess the only warning I have taught myself is to wary of the woman in a rush. Huge mistake a week ago was trying my game on a woman who clearly had a deadline back at work. She totally blew me off...thank God we were outside!

    I'll post more tonight as I am daygaming with my half-day and then hitting a happy hour with a few female friends (they are great cover!).

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    Default Re: Effects of direct day gaming

    Yeah man, it's a shame I can't do much peacocking or do that on my lunch hours.

    You see, I'm a military man. I only see dudes at work.

    As for female friends? you should read my introduction topic. I mostly hang out with women. They're amazing wingmen!

    2 things I really like doing. Being completly casual, and working my way up to Kino fast. After the initial one, they're working to kino me hehe!
    Because there are a lot of fish in the sea! - Shark


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