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    Green is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Question about specific situation (it's about teasing)

    Hi guys,

    I've got a quick question:
    As a tease/prank, I e-mailed a girl that's attracted to me a photo of HER photoshopped into a man (with moustache and everything, looks very realistic).
    Now, I find it really funny but she doesn't. Is this some general gender difference and a real faux-pas I stepped in or is it just her?
    I mean, judging by what she replied back to me I think she really didn't like it.

    Any thoughts on this are appreciated.

    Green
    Last edited by Green; 11-19-2011 at 05:22 PM. Reason: incorrect spelling

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    Default Re: Question about specific situation (it's about teasing)

    is she a 7 or lower because thats damn funny......if she a 7 then yes did not work because you really lower her self esteem.

    let me know from 1-10 because hot girls dont behave like that?

    thanks ed

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    Default Re: Question about specific situation (it's about teasing)

    That's the way, bro - I find it hilarious too!

    For me, she's an 8 with good self-esteem. Well, maybe a 7.5.

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    Default Re: Question about specific situation (it's about teasing)

    hey Green best advise dud, dont let that bother u it could be a test from her to see if you back down from being a man and not apologise for you having fun with her..........

    but does girls with a average self esteem there no need to make fun much because then they go away (calibrate)..... the funny part must be there to escalate....

    hope this help good luck, great idea you had i will be using it

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    Default Re: Question about specific situation (it's about teasing)

    you've stepped into the neg zone where it's an insult. you're hurting instead of helping. the game isn't intended to hurt. when new to the game it may seem like fun to damage a girl's ego when introduced to negs. it happened to me. i thought it was a neg when i told a girl that a paper bag should be put over her head. she tried to hit me but i had her around my arm at the end of the night. you can tease and play and flirt lightly and *kind of* make fun of their appearance but don't push it. there's a comfort zone there that you have to step out of and retreat into. but don't let it get to you. just tell her that you thought it was funny and that if she doesn't then it's her problem. you don't want to blow her off completely but you don't want to leave her insulted or feeling perplexed. sometimes women are intimidated by men that are more intelligent than them. plus your particular move wasn't entirely socially adequate. you have to be more open and agreeable. less push more pull. keep it moving. remember Cat String Theory.

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    Default Re: Question about specific situation (it's about teasing)

    Thanks guys. I just thought it wouldn't be a problem because obviously in reality there's ZERO similarity with a guy. But you know girls... ;D

    I sorted out the problem by saying I made her out to be more self-assured than she really is and that I saw the thing as a joke that wasn't intended to be mean-spirited.

    I did say the magic words "sorry", for all of you trying to be alpha and avoiding that word like pest. 'Cause that's what I do when I hurt someone's feelings.

    Thanks for all the replies guys!


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