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    Default Kino's Approaching & Seduction Tips

    Hey, guys. I am a coach in Albuquerque, New Mexico and I wanted to pass on a few tidbits of advice that should help you progress in the game.

    First of all, for those with Approach Anxiety stop hitting on women. Guys you have no idea, if this woman is worth your time. She may be beautiful, but maybe she is a horrible person, perhaps she is boring, or just dumb as a brick. You goal when conquering approach anxiety is just to open. Don’t even bother escalating until you can open smoothly without fear of rejection. I can’t even recall the last time I blew an open. I promise you, it does get easier.

    Secondly, use a maximum of three openers and stick with them. The reason being, if you use the same opener 10 times you will hear nearly every possible response. This allows you to formulate a response that allows you to maintain control over the conversation. For example, I had a buddy get called out for being a PUA, the first time this stumped him and he blew the set. He wanted to be ready for the next time and crafted a brilliant response for future use that I was lucky enough to see. When this girl called him out for being a PUA “like the guys on that show”, he immediately used the slashing motion at his neck and yelled “cut, cut, cut, she’s on to us, stop the tape” It was pure comedic genius and by controlling the situation in a fun playful way, she totally backed down.

    Also, guys this next tidbit will help you immensely. Make it about her (them) as soon as possible. While people are marginally interested in cute little stories about other people, they are always EXTREMELY interested in themselves. My favorite hook is “I bet in five minutes, I can KNOW your friend as a person almost as well as you have gotten to know her in the past five years”. Women can NOT resist this. Women pride themselves on their intuitive nature and they want to see if you are right. You can talk about crazy stories, flossing before or after brushing, give dhv examples and etc. Or she can tell you her sexual desires and things that spark her emotions. I can assure you the fastest way to lock her in is getting her to talk about herself and let her give you all the ammunition that you need to seal the deal.

    Finally, the second most powerful weapon in my arsenal is eliciting and feeding back values. I have a very deliberate strategy that makes women crazy. As they are talking about themselves, I make a mental checklist of a few points. She says she loves to travel and spend time with her family. I file that away in the back of my head and make small talk for about 5 or ten minutes. When the conversation shifts to me I say something like “I love to see new places with my friends” (i.e. travel.) and talk about how much fun it is to take my niece and nephew for ice cream (i.e. spend time with family). They never catch on to this and soon she will swear that you are soul mates. I actually used to feel guilty because I had two or three new “soul mates” a week.

    Good luck gentlemen!!!
    Last edited by Suave Kino; 11-28-2011 at 07:53 PM.

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    Default Re: Kino's Approaching & Seduction Tips

    Great advice thanks

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    Default Re: Kino's Approaching & Seduction Tips

    Great piece of work.
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    Default Re: Kino's Approaching & Seduction Tips

    Thanks guys!!! I am just glad that someone finds this stuff useful.

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    Default Re: Kino's Approaching & Seduction Tips

    What material did you read and study to be good at figuring out the female subject to build that pair bond.

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    Default Re: Kino's Approaching & Seduction Tips

    [quote=chet25;31066]What material did you read and study to be good at figuring out the female subject to build that pair bond.

    I read everything I could and I suggest you read everything you can. However, the most useful books I read, were "The Game,
    Mystery's "Venusian Arts" (that may not be the exact title), and Brad P's "The Adventures of Brad P." The quantum leap in my game came from blending the styles into what I call the "Bombshell Method."

    I will soon be posting a summary of my style. My goal is to get the girl hot and bothered in about 30 mins.

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    Default Re: Kino's Approaching & Seduction Tips

    Great stuff Kino i've been reading u're posts and they are absolutly spot on i agree with virgjans u deserve rep

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    Default Re: Kino's Approaching & Seduction Tips

    I really like this post! I will test out some of the ideas here!

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    Default Re: Kino's Approaching & Seduction Tips

    Great advice! Any advice for someone thats terrified of socializing with women and unable to get past "hi"? I dont have much time before I'm shipped out so any quick tips?

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    Default Re: Kino's Approaching & Seduction Tips

    Quote Originally Posted by Suave Kino View Post
    Finally, the second most powerful weapon in my arsenal is eliciting and feeding back values. I have a very deliberate strategy that makes women crazy. As they are talking about themselves, I make a mental checklist of a few points. She says she loves to travel and spend time with her family. I file that away in the back of my head and make small talk for about 5 or ten minutes. When the conversation shifts to me I say something like “I love to see new places with my friends” (i.e. travel.) and talk about how much fun it is to take my niece and nephew for ice cream (i.e. spend time with family). They never catch on to this and soon she will swear that you are soul mates. I actually used to feel guilty because I had two or three new “soul mates” a week.
    This was very helpful advice for me. Thank you good sir!


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