Question about an adaptation of this (I'm still not great with compliance):
Does compliance all have to be same night - thus raising her threshol? Or can the Bombshell still work if compliance is done at numerous "C2's" - thus creating a habit of compliance?
There's a girl in my Women Studies class and I've been getting compliance where/when I can on the way to/from class.
DTF HB's omw 2 LTR
Kino usually does this at clubs or where the girl is isolated. Maybe i'm wrong though .
Lol I kinda DO wanna try it in class tho now... just the image of that strikes my fancy.
But my original plan is to just work the compliance escalation during class and whatnot - then the actual bombshell would be if we go out to a bar - or during a daytime date when her compliance is high and she's in that kinda trance-like state.
Good details I hadn't really thought of tho... thanks Tempest!
DTF HB's omw 2 LTR
yup thats the main method used here in Jamaica but only the natural players or brave guys do it. personally never tried to be so blunt and straight forward unless i was flirting before so knowing that this is a proven method im gonna try it and post my results.
"To begin, I use a standard OPEN. Whatever your open, do not give any ioi's to her. Make sure to start Kino Escalation as soon as possible."
-Agreed. I actually start escalating before I even get to the target. Let's say club or bar scene. Make eye contact, force a reaction by giving her a big cheeky grin, and in the absence of a negative response I'll actually start to non-verbally escalate on my way there by looking at her in a sexual way. If she goes with it, and she's comfortable with it, shes might get kissed as soon as I get there.
"Next, comes ATTRACTION. Build your value in relation to her. Introduce sexuality as soon as possible but do not give her any indication that you even think she is attractive. Do not give her any compliments or reward for her behavior. "
-YOU'RE the alpha male, no need to build value because yours is already high and from your years of coaching I'm sure you know that girls can easily notice if you truly live in that reality or not in an interaction. Loving the verbal negligence in showing your interest. I'm actually a big proponent of escalating and showing your interest non-verbally (Kino, the way you look at her...eg: triangulate stare, slowing down your speech and i've found that introducing pauses is a killer. Pause+eyecontact=sex ual tension, she feels it, you feel it, game over.)
Overall, digging the shock and awe dimension in your bombshell method. Reminds me of the Apocalypse opener. I don't see shy girls responding to the skipping straight to seduction as well as normal socially calibrated or confident girls, but then again I'm a lazy guy and am trying to do as little as possible to get her in bed so shy girls are a no-no. Great post.
i managed to pull an Instant Date in a daygame situation, and what really obliterated the last defenses and resistance was the bombshell.
i have to say i didnt play it absolutely by the book (previous steps included some attention and regular ioi's)
i was playing a good game but there was still a last line of defense that i had no idea how to break (and i knew deep inside that if i didnt get at least a kiss the girl was gone).. so i thought whatever, lets try the bombshell
and seriously guys, i couldnt believe how she dropped her guard after that, it was magic.
kclose was very soon to follow.
So what would be the edge of the bombshell over any other method once you've reached that point?
And about reaching that point without showing any interest I wonder: how to keep her sticking around and get her horny by talking about neutral topics related to her?
Why should she be interested and get horny about a neutral chit chat with a stranger who's not even interested in her ?
And how can you kino escalate without giving any indication she's attractive?
But once you were there at the last line of defense, I wonder if any other escalation would have worked the same (like pulling her to you and forcing the kiss a little bit, or telling her how excited she was making you etc. )?
Do you remember exactly what have you said/done at that point?
we were sitting besides each other, she was in the corner with her legs facing me and her purse in between her and her legs. I judged that as resistance, it was just unnatural for me to approach her face without doing an awkward movement.
i tried the bombshell, she laughed and was a little blushed, but she completely relaxed and by the end of it we were sitting really close together with my arm on her lap/belly
personally i dont know what else i could've done in one move to relax her like that. if you have any other ideas please let me know!