So I have met several attractive women over the past week, and in almost all cases I was able to get their attention, smiles, laughter and so forth almost immediately. In almost all cases I felt that I got a good vibe started from their body language. Here is an example last night at a restaurant while I was ordering, we had already established somewhat of a raport with a survey she wanted me to take to help out the restaurant.
Me: Hey there, you look busy tonite
Her: Yes, hold on a second (she walks over to the window and hands the food out and comes right back).
Me: I filled out your survey, you owe me one (she smiles)
Her: Thank you
Me: Don't thank me, the place was trashed, the food was cold and skimpy, it was almost all 2's on the scale (she gives me a playful laugh and some positive body language, licking her lips, playing with her hair a bit. I pause for about 3 seconds then start back up) Especially that crappy service, it was awful. For sure a 1.
Her: Oh yea, just terrible (she giggles)
Me: Its okay, I'm sure you will get there. (I then give her my order and pay)
Now she is busy this whole time but keeps wandering back to the front counter, obviously wanting me to say something or notice her, but at this point I am frozen, and her boss is up there working with them and being kind of a bitch to them, so I didn't want to get her in trouble. My food came up, and I left, do my sexy "Bye ladies" and flash her some fark me eyes, then walk out nice, tall and confident. I forgot my sauce so I go back in to get it, she negs me a bit telling me "Wow that is embarassing, and to get the hell out of there." I take my sauce and leave.
I simply just lost the conversation. There wouldn't be time for anything more then witty banter but there may be in the future. My thing is I'm constantly running into issues with keeping the flow of the conversation, which is out of the norm for me as I have quite a bit of charisma and use it. I've just recently started training my brain to get my wits back up to help with this situation, but I'm still having some real issues here, so any input and help is appreciated.