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    Default Quiet Girl = Hard Read

    so ive been running into this quiet, keep-to-herself girl that lives in my dorm who i believe has a thing for me--but then she gives me this one sign that throws me off!

    her ioi's: smiling when she sees me, letting me into her intimate space, asking me questions regarding her self esteem( e.g. "should i be a model?"), dancing in front of me, showing me her sketchbook

    the throw off: whenever we hug, she is quick to pat me on the back, signaling "get off me, bro," imo

    am i reading into the throw off too much? or is it just a part of her behavior?

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    Default Re: Quiet Girl = Hard Read

    You might be misinterpreting why shes doing it, like you said shes quiet. You've always gotta look at the good signs versus the bad ones, if the good outweigh the bad you're good. It might be a quirk, or maybe shes nervous, but don't take one bad sign as a no-go. If what you say is true, shes into you, ask her out. Good luck.

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    Default Re: Quiet Girl = Hard Read

    If that's literally the only throw off, yeah it sounds like you're reading into it too much
    See how she reacts to different kinds of touch.

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    Default Re: Quiet Girl = Hard Read

    Patting you on the back is an ioi. It means she trusts you. Sounds stupid, but it's probably true.

    Anyway...

    1. Ask her to start patting your butt instead because you respond better.
    2. Text her and tell her to rush over and give you a pat on the back please.
    3. etc.

    Turn a weird thing into a positive one.
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    Default Re: Quiet Girl = Hard Read

    Patting you on the back is an ioi. It means she trusts you. Sounds stupid, but it's probably true.
    she trusts him, but intimate hugs are much longer

    if you want a good hug tell her you want a good hug and she'll giuve you one

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    Default Re: Quiet Girl = Hard Read

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    if you want a good hug tell her you want a good hug and she'll give you one
    Or... in my language "hey girl, from now on, give me a real hug, not a sissy hug."
    - CR

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    Default Re: Quiet Girl = Hard Read

    Here is what i think u should know about quiet girls:
    -Never tell her to open up to you. She will never open up to you before u do. Just do it and she 'll do the same.
    -Don't touch her unless it's in a protective manner.
    -Roll off after every ioi u give her.
    -Be quiet yet confident.
    -Show her that u have a passion for life.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: Quiet Girl = Hard Read

    @Xavier, what do you mean by Roll Off after every ioi you give her?

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    Default Re: Quiet Girl = Hard Read

    I believe what Xavier means is that after you give her an ioi, back off and show a bit of disinterest in her. Make her attempt to come to you. It's just like cat and mouse.

    I also really like the idea of transforming a sign of friendliness into a flirty gesture. It's great for speeding things up and taking them to the next level.

    Although this might be old Swagman coming through, and I am attempting to kill that part of me right now, you should take things easy. Considering she is quiet and she is be a bit shy, she may react negatively to sudden moves. Go with the flow of things, be natural, and you should get to your destination in no time
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Quiet Girl = Hard Read

    Quote Originally Posted by nameinator View Post
    @Xavier, what do you mean by Roll Off after every ioi you give her?
    A2 = Bait,hook,Reel, release,watch/read Mystery method.

    It's sort of a Push/Pull technique.

    Also imo,i did lots of patting on the back when i was shy...so she's most likely nervous/shy.


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