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    Kiddgenesis is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help on openers for Natural Game

    So i'm not into learning canned material or shit like that, i just don't get observational or situational openers

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    Default Re: Need help on openers for Natural Game

    You don't need canned material, but I always like to have something in my pocket just in case- it helps, as dumb as it might be at least you don't feel like an airhead when u suddenly think there's nothing to say. (cuz ur probably a bit nervous by then). 'It doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it.'

    I like to roll with observational/situational openers for sure, keepin it simple with that, and mucho confidence keeps ya in the game Then u should get attraction and go from there!

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    Default Re: Need help on openers for Natural Game

    I like to go situational first, opinion openers as a back up, and then occasionally mix in a direct (depending on if it's day/night game).

    Let's say you are in a bar and you want to do a situational opener. First, make sure you are with some friends or if not just chat up the first group you see, just keep your social proof high as you start looking for targets.

    Then, look for a set to approach and think of an observation such as:

    - clothing/jewelry they have on, hair style etc.
    - music that is on, something about the layout of the bar
    - other people around you, "hey did you guys notice...etc."

    You can even make one up: "I swear, there are these two ladies over there that must be like 50" and then follow up "do you guys think you'll still go to clubs when you're that age?" Anything that starts a fun conversation.

    Honestly, just be confident and talk loud. Have strong body language and position yourself right in the group. After a minute you need to transition away from the opener anyway, so it isn't all that important what exactly you say. Better to approach and say anything, then not approach at all.

    Best,

    j

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    Default Re: Need help on openers for Natural Game

    Well put there jkwan, sometimes the most obvious things are the easiest to open with, and ya stack from there.
    game up!

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    Default Re: Need help on openers for Natural Game

    How do you all transition from your opener to 'casual natural game' small talk or whatever?

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    Default Re: Need help on openers for Natural Game

    Thanks for the tips jkwan23! I rarely use situational openers but I will try and put the info to use


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