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Thread: Funny thing I've noticed when gaming girls

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    Default Funny thing I've noticed when gaming girls

    I've been flirting with girls, texting/emailing them etc. and when I am really on my game (which for me is mostly cocky/funny) I've noticed something.

    When I am successful at being PUA, the girls start to become AFC.

    In other words, when my game is tight, they start to act lame and needy, as if they can't keep up with my cocky sense of humor (and I always call them on this and say "that was lame, but it's cute that you tried." They try to make fun of me or make a joke and don't pull it off, or they start texting like an AFC like "hey, I'm free all week, so whenever you wanna meet up"

    Here's a text convo I'm having with this girl Ijust met (haven't hooked up or anything)

    Me: Miss me yet?
    Her: (after a day) sorry, I just got this. Sorry for the awkward pause How's your break going?
    Me: It's cool. They say when you get older, the reaction time is the first thing to go
    Her: haha, well it's my bad hip that is slowing me down. Yeah, I've just been hanging out, kinda bored.

    First, she apologizes for a slow response and then rather then say she was busy/hanging out with friends, she claims she just got the text, which is why she didn't respond right away.

    Then she tries to retort with a joke of her own, and admits she is just sitting around texting me. Combining all this with the fact that I was the one to end the convo, I gotta feel pretty good about this exchange.

    It just goes to show that when you keep your value high and make yourself a challenge, girls start to falter in their actions toward you. Girls are no different than us in this regard, they can be needy and show too much interest, they get nervous around guys they like and don't know what to say.

    If any of you guys have noticed something similar to this, please post. I think it's a pretty fascinating concept really.

    -jkwan23

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    Default Re: Funny thing I've noticed when gaming girls

    YES!!! This relates to the point I make in my signature. The whole point of game is to put the girl in the position of desire. Because of feminism and a lack of fathers in many Western males lives, most men have not learned how to appropriately and naturally attract women. It does not help that the media reinforces the stereotype that men are idiots and should be soft, beta, tell girls they like them, etc. Being "PUA" (I call it alpha, because you need to learn to become and stay alpha for life, PUA is just a glorified term for cad) is reclaiming your natural role in the mating game by acting like a man, which in turn causes women to assume their natural role. Then they try to win you over. Of course, we, as men, have to initiate things, but ultimately we let the women play the "AFC" role.

    Now we see why women find AFC behavior repulsive in men: the men are acting feminine and employing a mostly female mating strategy. Let them make you dinner, tell you how much they like you and adore you, let them tell you they love you first, and ultimately get them to start bringing up marriage and kids and trying to tie you down in stead of the other way around.
    Women want to win a man over, they do not want a man who tries to win them over. When you overtly try to win a woman over by being "nice," buying her stuff, or telling her your feelings, you're assuming the female role, and depriving a woman of her natural role. Make her put you on her pedestal, don't put her on yours. - Raven Maxim #7

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    Default Re: Funny thing I've noticed when gaming girls

    Here is my experience with the same

    I was totally sprung on this girl, but I would restrain and not show it too much ..I would seduce her and she would get nervous. There were times where she would play me ( i gave into telling her what I liked on a girl and she would use it on me)..she would get a kick out of seeing me squirm when she did certain things to me. I would reframe and get her nervous and uncomfortable by pushing the envelope on things I knew she liked. So on and so forth.

    She is kind of an Alpha female so its a fun dynamic in giving her some power and then taking it away. Its kind of an ioi to see an Alpha woman squirm when making yourself desired and then having her show her AFC tendencies come out when she gets nervous.

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    Default Re: Funny thing I've noticed when gaming girls

    I feel that PUA is a way to level out the playing field. I think Raven said it great... women, due to societal expectations and norms and ideas from stupid sappy movies and shows, have this idea that men are Prince Charmings running around sweeping them off their feet. WRONG... If all men just opened up the way those movie characters do, girls would be disinterested in seconds. Yes, every girl want's a great guy, but they don't want boredom.

    I had a conversation with a girl recently through texts. She brought up the fact that she is looking but there are no "nice guys around"... Being who I am, I am one to defend men immediately. There are PLENTY of nice guys around. But girls don't want a nice guy. They want a HOT guy who CAN be NICE. Big difference.
    It isn't fair whatsoever. The idea that prince charming can sweep women off their feet gives us men an uphill battle. Fairy tales are stories, simple as that. One day yeah, if I find the right girl, I'll act out a little prince charming for her once in a while. But don't expect that from me anytime soon if I am just getting to know you. Men should no longer do the chasing. TImes have changed. It isn't 1950 anymore. It's 2012.

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    Default Re: Funny thing I've noticed when gaming girls

    Last week I got this girls number at the beach. She was this hot little redhead and when I got her number she said "give me a sometime call" then walked away haha.. I think she meant to say give me a call sometime. It reminded me of something I would have nervously said when I first started gaming.

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    Default Re: Funny thing I've noticed when gaming girls

    Don't forget guys....theres a good chance that none of your fathers knew the existence of PUA or any skills close to it. Acting what we call "beta" by chasing a woman isn't the worst thing. It does give her alot of power, but if she wants the same thing as you then you are in the clear. PUA is just meant to increase your chances dramatically....and it does.

    And I do agree that with the help of the media that women are becoming more masculine while men are becoming more feminine.

    Honestly I don't mind doing chasing here and there. Because there is a way to chase without looking needy. And as long as she wants the same thing as me then we both win since I am giving her that validation.....with a little push/pull mixed in there.

    Also you will have to learn to reach a real level with her where the teasing and cocky humor get cut down alot. A moment where you start to let her know she is special to you and get all that mushy gushy stuff that guys try to stay away from. Best to do this after she is attracted.

    The text interaction was good, but I wouldn't put too much weight to it. She was very bland on her end. This takes a ton of time and practice and I still learn something everyday which makes me humble. So never think you reached the peak because there's always another one.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Funny thing I've noticed when gaming girls

    Always another peak spoken like a true og player


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