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    Default What to talk about after opening

    I'm on holiday, doing snowboard, and I found a "perfect" opener (at least if you find yourself stuck into a chairlift with a cute girl).

    You just say hi when you get in there, nothing else. Then, after a couple of minutes, you ask her, "do you know where the snow park is?" That shows value, knowledge, adventure and that you travel, as you know how to do it but not where it is there. I actually wanted to know it, so I just used it as an opener. Then I asked her where she was from (Australia), as shee didn't seem occidental, and we kept talking and talking.

    Too bad I didnīt have a phone or anything to write her number down.

    But for the future, I think itīs a great opener at this situation. The only thing, is that I donīt know how I can continue it if we aren't stuck in a chairlift.

    Picture the situation: you are at the bottom of the mountain, and you ask an HB where the snowpark is. What else would you say next? I don't mind any style (direct, indirect, C&F...), I'm just having fun and I'd like to improve myself.
    My English is probably not completely right and you might need an extra effort to figure out what I actually meant. Also I'm not a pro, but I keep practicing and learning almost every day.

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    Default Re: What to talk about after opening

    Tough to tell you what you would said next. You should be noticing their body language cues and listening to them. You can lead the conversation in a way to relate to their core values after you get attraction. Look up David Wygant, he is good at being a conversationalist. Don't fall into the trap of thinking of what to say next, just act. Tease her about something you observe besides her physical looks works good.

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    Default Re: What to talk about after opening

    Yeah, that's right. If I just relax and let it flow, it works much better than if I'm concentrating too hard. It wasn't easy to tell the body language as I just could see the face through all those clothes, and I've found out that I do much better with foreign girls, while I suck with Spanish (my language) girls. I even got one to invite me to few drinks, but I couldn't go anyway.
    Thanks for the advise! I'll keep it in mind
    My English is probably not completely right and you might need an extra effort to figure out what I actually meant. Also I'm not a pro, but I keep practicing and learning almost every day.


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