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    BlitzkriegDating is offline Banned PUA
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    Default How To Approach Women During The Day

    I absolutely love meeting women during the day. For me, as a busy professional that does not have the energy nor the incentive to run around a dingy club cesspit at 4 am in the morning, I find that by meeting women during the day I meet more interesting, high quality women and can still wake up at 7 am the next morning.

    Naturally, the best places to meet women during the day is where women hang out, but some places for meeting women in the day time are going to be harder or easier depending where you go. Over the years of my PUA journey, I have found a small collection of hotspots of where women will be hot, friendly, and open to being approached.

    Below are the best places to meet and approach women during the day.

    Festivals, Concerts & Events
    This is my absolute favourite way of meeting women during the day: the environment is lively, exciting, women are out with their girlfriends looking to have FUN and experience some adventure. The atmosphere is not dissimilar to a night game environment, there is music, alcohol and some extremely attractive women all looking to hook up and enjoy themselves.

    The following events are my favourite places to meet women during the day.

    1. Rock concerts

    2. Wine tasting festivals

    3. Art gallery events

    4. Beach festivals

    5. Camping trips

    6. Fairs, carnivals and sideshows

    ANYWHERE where this is a large amount of women all looking to have FUN in a stimulation-saturated event is a goldmine to approach women. Show that you're there to have fun too and the results of approaching women in these environments will surprise you.

    Parks & Beaches
    While meeting women during the day at the beach or at the park you'll encounter groups of girls catching up with each other over a coffee or a light lunch, a sweet girl reading a book underneath a tree by herself and groups of females just hanging out and having fun. In these lower energy environments, it is important not to disturb the peace or the tempo of the environment. When approaching women during the day you should come across as relaxed, cool and show that you think that meeting women during the day is the most natural thing in the world! Most of the girls you will be talking to during the day have likely never been approached in a day time setting, so you must adjust your game accordingly.

    Remember, daytime energy is LOW energy, sometimes to the point where you will feel your energy melt into the background ambience of the environment. This is okay to start with, as she needs time to fully grasp the idea that she is really meeting someone new during the day.

    Bookstores & Libraries
    When meeting women in bookstores or libraries during the day. You should be using the same amount of energy as you would use in most of other daytime situations. The benefit of targeting these areas is the type of women that they attract. It is unlikely you will meet some coked-up drunk party girl sitting down with a HP Lovecraft novel at these venues. You will be meeting quieter, more reserved girls that enjoy absorbing themselves in complicated subjects and novels. These girls are incredibly sweet and smart which will make great long-term girlfriends. If you're sick of talking to the same ADD club girls then this is definitely a place to check out if you enjoy making an actual connection with a girl instead of a pump n' dump.

    The Street
    If you want to play to win on the hardest 'venue' for meeting women during the day, this is it. It is not your five star clubs or your elite social fraternities; it is the cold pavement, which is the hardest place to consistently pick up women. The benefit of picking up girls on the street during the day is that it is comparable to training for the PUA Olympics. Once your game is adaptable, enough to attract and close women you meet on the street EVERYTHING ELSE becomes a thousand times easier by comparison.

    Usually when I am picking up girls on street I find that using situational or opinion openers works the best. Once I deliver my opener and we are engaging in conversation I immediately start leading and pacing the situation by slowing my pace down to half speed, now she is following my lead and she has showed a level of investment to the interaction. We keep talking, and at some point, I completely stop moving so we are now stationary along the footpath, both completely absorbed by the conversation. Now here is where I do either one of two things: if I think I've built enough rapport and attraction I'll ask for a number, or if things are going really well and we are close to a bookshop, coffee house, clothes store etc I'll bounce her and start an instadate.

    Picking up women during the daytime on the street is all about displaying value FAST as girls on the street are not just wandering aimlessly: they are going somewhere! You need to show that she is going to have more fun by following your lead than whatever boring clerical errand she is running (Which should not be very hardů)

    Meeting Women During The Day
    As a summary of what I have outlined above, the best places to meet women during the day is anywhere women meet to have fun or hang out. You should adjust your energy levels to hers and you should have a game plan in place after you open. Are you going to try for a number if the logistics are not there, or are you going to go for an instadate?

    Meeting women during the day is extremely fun and can be performed anywhere. If you would like some quick practice try taking public transport instead of your car for a week and see how many beautiful women you encounter every day without ever realizing it. The next step then is to learn how to get over your Approach Anxiety and actually make the move. The more times you fail, the faster you improve, and there is NO OTHER WAY of getting better at this.

    Even if you fall on your face, you are still moving forward.

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    Thumbs up Re: How To Approach Women During The Day

    I really enjoyed this post and completely agree. The daytime meets are great, and they typically yield, at a minimum, some great interactions. I like the bookstore the best, and I also like the popular, cafeteria style lunch spots where you are waiting in lines with people.

    Any advice on the daytime close? Go for the number? Coffee? Lunch? or just let the context of the situation dictate?

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    Default Re: How To Approach Women During The Day

    This is such a great informative post. Especially for someone like me, who enjoys daygame. Everything you mentioned is 100% right. They move on there feet quick, they`ve got places to be, once you get the ball rolling and quick to drop game, you will see all areas of your inner game improve.

    Beautiful woman walk past you everyday, that`s a perfect advantage. Woman would rather hear that they got picked up by a man who saw and knew what he wanted, rather than some sleazeball in a club venue most of the time. Well that`s just my view anyway.

    GABLE

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    Default Re: How To Approach Women During The Day

    I hate the bar scene. Too freaking loud to really talk to anyone. I primarily work the day scene. You find the nerdy, indie and Girl friend material girls during the day. Though I am lazy I just work coffee shops, and college events. Being in college myself. Had a coffee date yesterday it went pretty awesomely.

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    Default Re: How To Approach Women During The Day

    well what are some openers you can use on a random girl on the street?

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    Default Re: How To Approach Women During The Day

    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    well what are some openers you can use on a random girl on the street?
    I'm from New York City but I was visiting San Francisco for business and fun and my wing opens on two 9's in a Starbucks with "So what'd you order?"

    He transitioned to introducing me and my unfamiliarity with SF and we convinced them to spend the entire day with us showing us around. Number closed and then more adventures two days later with them.

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    Default Re: How To Approach Women During The Day

    Quote Originally Posted by Flow View Post
    I'm from New York City but I was visiting San Francisco for business and fun and my wing opens on two 9's in a Starbucks with "So what'd you order?"

    He transitioned to introducing me and my unfamiliarity with SF and we convinced them to spend the entire day with us showing us around. Number closed and then more adventures two days later with them.
    oh ok, do you guys have any advice for a day game at college? i am going to be a sophomore because my freshman year ends in a week, i unfortunately am a virgin :/ idk how to "spit" or just get girls. i really need help.

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    Default Re: How To Approach Women During The Day

    I've always dug on day game. Even before I knew what "day game" is or came across pua stuff, years before.

    Situational openers, confidence, and allowing convos to just kinda flow. I think I actually was once better at day game then nite game, and it kinda reversed actually. I wanna get more back to it haha.

    If you've ever snagged a girls # like on a bus with twenty jealous dudes around, id say its a good risk v. reward ha.

    It usually doesn't take much to start a convo, just can't second guess yourself and be natural.

    Cheers


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