hey all ive been approaching with confidence alpha etc but its not working for me..probably because being in control of my world making the descisions is not a check that i can cash at this point in my life and can come accross a little fake to her and to me aswell.
This weekend im going to try my first approaches being a little bit goofy and shy a bit like the type of dude youd see on a comedy..
I will keep my subtext as slightly more confident than what i actually say...
I will also use goofy sence of humour in my approach to hopefully get them laughing.
Anyone Tried It? if it sux ill go back to fake it till you make it alpha confidence..