I start to think about what am I doing wrong that I am not closing anybody when I have the best freaking chance to even f-close somebody. I found out what it is. So, I really want you to help me out on this one.
My problem is, I care about people. I don't think about anything like "is this guy her bf?", "does this girl like me?" none of that crap. My problem is I approach the girl, attract the girl, qualify the girl, get her into comfort where she just sees me, nobody else. I get through all those stages. I become good at kinoing where I don't get my hands taken away from her body by her. But, when I need to close I puss out. And the reason for that is, I think "im gonna ruin her life." a lot of my friends tell me to not care about it. but they don't tell me how. So, I really need your help. If anybody had a problem like this, please let me know. How do you get away from that kinda Mindset. Any kinda mind exercise or something that can make me get rid of it. I've had chance to f-close like 2 girls in 3 nights. and I missed all of them. The reason in all 2 of them was, I feel like I am being evil. Maybe, my personality of being alpha male is not fully formed... So, please help! I want to hear opinion, advice, anything. Just help me get rid of it.
P.S If its not the right forum to post this, let me know. I'll change its current forum.