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    Question How do i approach a now MODEL that i used to have classes w/ in Jr High?

    I'm in quite a pickle. I saw this girl today workin at my local grocery store and she looked absolutely STUNNING! Then i realized it was a girl that i used to have classes with in middle school but didn't talk to very much.

    anyways, tell a couple friends "hey remember _______, i saw her workin at the store today and she looked amazing!" my buddy says "oh yeah shes a model now!"

    she was busy with things when i saw her and she was across the room so the approach would have been difficult. I really want to get back in touch with this woman but im unsure of how!

    I never feel comfortable bothering someone at work especially when it is busy work like restocking shelves at the grocery store. but is that exactly what i should do when i go back again? should i try and connect with her on facebook first and try and get her to meet up that way? (i heard that is kind of a "no no" though)

    what's a guy in my sitch to do?

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    Default Re: How do i approach a now MODEL that i used to have classes w/ in Jr High

    That Facebook idea would be a big, fat NO. The reason - you're using it as an excuse to avoid face-to-face interaction. Not good.

    There's multiple things you have in your favor here:
    1. You knew her before, so you have commonalities already. Perfect way to open. Women will open up to people they knew, even if it was brief. You remembering her name = major bonus points.
    2. She's working. At the very least, she's obligated from her job (for the sake of professionalism) to be nice to you. She can't tell you to "fark off" or she'll get fired. The conversation, at worst, will just be brief. You'll live.

    Key thing to note - models hate being treated abnormally because of their looks. Don't be afraid to treat her the same way you'd treat your friends. She's not an alien. And don't bring up her modeling. Don't drag the topic out or put it up on a pedestal if she mentions it.

    Go up, say hi, remind her how you two know each other, smile, be enthusiastically interested in her and how she's been, then before she has the chance to use her work as an excuse to end the chat - ask her if you two can catch up sometime when she's off. In fact, have a specific event idea in mind already.

    It'll be fine, dude.

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    Default Re: How do i approach a now MODEL that i used to have classes w/ in Jr High

    Dude thanks! That is some sound advice! I will do exactly as you have said and post my results here! Thanks once again!

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    Default Re: How do i approach a now MODEL that i used to have classes w/ in Jr High

    She's not a model. She's a grocery store clerk who may model, too. If she was all that in the modeling world, she wouldn't be stocking shelves. Keep it in perspective.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: How do i approach a now MODEL that i used to have classes w/ in Jr High

    I'm currently talking to a model myself, everytime I have set up a date, she is "doing a show." or "was busy." So I'm not pushing it too much myself, and giving her space. She has my number. My question, I met her on plenty of fish, and have not had a first date/meet yet. She was the last one to respond a day ago, she is supposed to be in NYC this weekend doing a show. Should I wait till Sunday/Monday to touch base and chat her up, wait, or just let her initiate contact again.

    Note, she doesn't seem that bright, but is fun to talk to.


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