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    GucciNobou is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Help Wanted with conversation

    I've been learning alot from this forum but i still have problems with keeping a convo going after i approach a girl,i cant quite lead the intro into a "so what's your number?" with out feeling awkward as hell. what should i say to keep things interesting, and pos crack a smile/laugh this way i will feel more comfortable asking ?

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    Default Re: Help Wanted !!

    this is a social plateau, you need to keep trying so you can naturally make witty or interesting observations or statements on the scene

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    Default Re: Help Wanted !!

    Ok ok i gotcha, but what are some examples? what do you say to keep a convo going, and fun?

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    Default Re: Help Wanted !!

    what exactly do u mean? what type of details should i add. because im really lookin to spice up our convo's, and make myself seem like a fun guy to her.

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    Default Re: Help Wanted !!

    all i can say is whatever i tell you wont last, you must already have had the ability to make these statements from scratch while following everything that goes on especially her. you must practice

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    Default Re: Help Wanted !!

    Quote Originally Posted by GucciNobou View Post
    ....and make myself seem like a fun guy to her.
    Here's the core of your issue. Even you don't think you're a fun guy. If you knew you were a fun guy, who did things that kicked ass, you wouldn't be searching for things to talk about.

    Don't strive to make yourself "seem like a fun guy", reach a little higher, bud.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: Help Wanted with conversation

    Nik said it great. Don't "seem like a fun guy". BE a fun guy. Because you are. Remember, YOU'RE the prize. She'd be lucky to get YOU. Because you're a fun, great guy. You're a lucky catch for a gal.

    Only practice in the field will give you this inner game. Go out, and learn friend. Fake it until you make it.
    Demonstrate, never explicate.

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    Default Re: Help Wanted with conversation

    Alot of us want the line by line script and even though it may work, were are just giving you fish and not teaching you to get your own. It has to stem internally starting with your Mindset. With that I will still give you one fish. If you are unsure of the attraction the woman has for you or if she would meet up with you another time then you have to get the number under the pretext that you are going somewhere fun and she should come along. Throw in there that she should bring some friends as well.

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    Default Re: Help Wanted with conversation

    To keep help keep the conversation going make a list of interesting stories or fun topics before you go out and keep it in your pocket. Important: Never look at the list during the interaction. The simple act of writing down a couple of ideas, and refreshing yourself in the bathroom or on your way to the bar will help you think of something on the spot.

    To get a phone number; organize a date first, if she has already agreed to see you again swapping numbers will be a natural progression, as you will need to contact each other to finalize your plans.


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