Hey everyone been reading the forums awhile now and just now decided to post about something i have recently ran into.
I recently just went out on a date with this cute girl who is best friends with one of my best friends ( who is a girl ) and actually even lives with her. We go to the same college and i had known her awhile and had hooked up with her a few times before a couple semesters ago before she had a boyfriend. Well, now shes recently single (broke up less than a month ago) and she and my other friend kept making comments to me saying that i needed to take her on a date.
So i gave in and started texting her and hung out with her a few times at her place ( with the other girl their as well ) and ended up hooking up with her a couple times again. We would text everyday for most of the day about anything and everything, and one night even just sat on the couch for four hours straight just talking to each other, point being i really like her.
PROBLEM: I notice she acts completely different when we are alone compared to when we are around others (like our mutual friend for example) so i made a comment to her about it and she ended up texting me a bunch of stuff around the lines of"im just weird im not good at expressing my feelings. dating my last bf was such an ordeal and i need time to get over everyting" and "i promised myself next time i dated someone i would take time and not rush anything like i did with him" and she eventually said "i just think, i need time to get over that relationship and dont think im ready to date right now". So later i texted her and she told me " i really do like hanging out with you im just nervous." She wouldn't tell me why she is nervous, just that i make her nervous. Since then (3 days ago) we haven't seen each other and she doesnt text me as much and is just acting different. We are supposed to go to church together with a couple of other friends tomorrow so ill find out more then but what should i do to keep from being friend-zoned? I
fyi i tried a Freeze Out today and she hasn't contacted me at all.