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    usergray is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I'm looking for some motivation - Pref. someone to actually meet with.

    I'm in Harrisburg, PA for the weekend. I almost never get a chance to go out and do any kind of pickup (married with children). I want to learn to open my mouth and get over my fears.
    Tonight I went to a Strip Club because I figured the girls would come to me and help me get talkative. What a disappointment. I think I was invisible or something. Very demoralizing. I couldn't even get the girls to make eye contact with me. It was pretty busy but I don't think that's an excuse.
    I have one more day here, I'm leaving Sunday morning. I'll be working at the Eastern Sports Show tomorrow, Satruday Feb. 4. If anyone can help me out there I'll get you in for free (I think you'll have to pay for parking).
    I'm also available tomorrow night.
    Any takers?

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    don pimpin sheezy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: I'm looking for some motivation - Pref. someone to actually meet with.

    I live in San Diego so unfortunately I can't be your wing.

    Talking to women at work in service industries like strippers, or waitresses, or retail is different from approaching and trying to start a conversation with regular women because they're trying be pleasant towards you in order to sell something. They're also going to have to break conversation at time to attend to other customers so there's that to consider. Just curious but have you never approached a woman you're attracted to out in public before and started a conversation?

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    usergray is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I'm looking for some motivation - Pref. someone to actually meet with.

    Wow. I almost forgot about this post. I'm backbone in rural Michigan with the wife and kids.
    For obvious reasons I don't get to make many approaches. When I'm in public I usually have someone with me. At work I've already taken the one good looking lady as far as I can.
    The only real time I have to make approaches is when I'm working away from home which isn't very often. I'm kind if stuck. I thunk I've inky ever approaches one girl that wasnt working in some capacity or another. I knew I had to try. I was terrified. I made a joke about how long she was taking to pick out spaghetti sauce. Then I had nothing else to talk about so I told her I was practicing making conversation, awkward pause, end conversion.
    I don't know what you can do from cali but I'm glad you asked. Thanks.

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    Default Re: I'm looking for some motivation - Pref. someone to actually meet with.

    Quote Originally Posted by usergray View Post
    Wow. I almost forgot about this post. I'm backbone in rural Michigan with the wife and kids.
    For obvious reasons I don't get to make many approaches. When I'm in public I usually have someone with me. At work I've already taken the one good looking lady as far as I can.
    The only real time I have to make approaches is when I'm working away from home which isn't very often. I'm kind if stuck. I thunk I've inky ever approaches one girl that wasnt working in some capacity or another. I knew I had to try. I was terrified. I made a joke about how long she was taking to pick out spaghetti sauce. Then I had nothing else to talk about so I told her I was practicing making conversation, awkward pause, end conversion.
    I don't know what you can do from cali but I'm glad you asked. Thanks.
    Believe me, a fair amount of stupid shit has come out of my mouth early on when I was nervous trying to talk to women. Now I just try to relax, stay on point, and not try too hard to make convo so I can see if she's into me and what kind of personality I'm working with.

    What's your plan with honing your pick-up skills? Do you want some extra-marital sex or are you just wanting to get more comfortable around new women?

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    usergray is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I'm looking for some motivation - Pref. someone to actually meet with.

    Yes. I'm like any AFC looking to better myself. I grew up in a very strict religion. Much of my life still revolves around that lifestyle but I'm looking to expand my horizons. Being so limited in where I can practice makes it difficult but I have had some minor successes. I number closed a girl in PA. It didn't go anywhere but I felt good about that much. Some of my other posts have the details.

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    Default Re: I'm looking for some motivation - Pref. someone to actually meet with.

    Quote Originally Posted by usergray View Post
    Yes. I'm like any AFC looking to better myself. I grew up in a very strict religion. Much of my life still revolves around that lifestyle but I'm looking to expand my horizons. Being so limited in where I can practice makes it difficult but I have had some minor successes. I number closed a girl in PA. It didn't go anywhere but I felt good about that much. Some of my other posts have the details.
    Have you ever tried taking a personal development course? Like a bootcamp?

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    Default Re: I'm looking for some motivation - Pref. someone to actually meet with.

    have a good journey,
    I'm waiting for you!


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