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    Default Talking over phone (I have a Russian accent)

    I am a bit uncomfortable with my voice considering I heave a Russian accent, its not heavy but neither light. Besides that, I feel generally uncomfortable talking over the phone with a girl that I barely know. How can I increase my comfort ability?

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    Default Re: Talking over phone

    Was looking for constructive advice, I guess there won't be any here...

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    Default Re: Talking over phone

    I'm learning how to sing right now; that is what got me comfortable with my voice and that might work with you too. There is no need to feel ashamed over your accent either since there are women who find that attractive.

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    Default Re: Talking over phone

    have you tried looking for an english coach to help decrease your accent?

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    Default Re: Talking over phone

    Well, beliefs can go either way. Some people think their accent is what gets them laid and you think it's whats gonna hold you back. Constructive: Write down 100 reasons why your accent is a benefit to you when picking up girls and talking to a girl on the phone. How could having a russian accent actually help you build attraction? How can you use it to your benefit and make it work for you? Your belief about yourself is primary and comes long before anything you say.

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    Default Re: Talking over phone

    ^^^Solid.

    I would say embrace your accent and use it to your advantage.

    Also, comfort comes from expanding your comfort zone. Talk to more girls on the phone; become more comfortable with talking to girls on the phone.
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    Default Re: Talking over phone

    My bet is, she is into the accent and it will probobly be an advantage for you! Maybe do a few "do re mi's" prior to the conversation to get a nice even tone, and then rock it!!!

    Get comfortable, good luck

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    Default Re: Talking over phone

    Dude, I have opened girls using a fake russian accent just for fun. I have even thrown it in during random sex (specifically russian the last time) and guess what, she went crazy on me and asked me to talk like that for the rest of the encounter.

    It is your belief that matters, but use it bro, so use it to your advantage.

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    Default Re: Talking over phone

    i reckon russian accents sound pretty cool, i had a boss back when i did work xp that had one, sounded pretty mad (y) and i can't remember who said it but essentially you have to play the hand your dealt, so love that russian accent


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