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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    im not afraid to do it solo now, before i always had a wingman, wingcouple, or group so I wasn't the odd guy out in the face of rejection, but rejection doesn't faze me anymore

    often i go to a rave with my friends, & i breakoff by myself or with a wingman, ive been trying to get my friends to wingman w me, but many of em, even the ones with good game(usually in the form of social circle), are afraid to face the fire

    going w a group with some hot girls, ussually ur friends gfs, doesn't hurt

    its a good method for the guy willing to take lots of rejection and able to dance for days. its a very different approach from bars, or college parties. while the latter requires conversational and typical PUA skills, the former requires effort, persistence, and you must be fit enough to dance for hours and hours.

    cons r:
    u have push other guys away, must bustle ur way through the crowd. ppl r u gonna get pissed when u do this, its part of it

    your opener is grinding on the girl and seeing how she reacts, will she get turned on or turn to her friend and call you a creeper? most of the time the latter happens, i got used to it

    when the girl does like it, will her friends try to change her mind? can u build a lil rapport and close?

    there r logistical challenges, only a small percentage of the girls you close w will live close enough to meet w u later. often ill get 5-10 numbers at a rave only 1 or 2 will lead to a date.

    pros:
    you build physical comfort, Tension, intrigue right on the spot. the ultimate pro is you have access to the hottest girls without having to be rich or famous. u don't have to do cheesy palm reads, card tricks or cheesy pickup lines. u sell having sex to a really hot chick right on the spot. in less than a few minutes u know if shes feeling it or not.

    but this is how ive meet the hottest girls ive scored, its alot of work, but once ur doing a HB8-10, its worth it

    for college aged guys, the finest girls r either ina sorority or at raves. im past the whole greek thing, i was never ina frat, i was an honorary member of a few, but those guys graduated, ima 5th yr, and im not into drinking. this now my way of meeting the hottest girls and its working for me.

    this doesn't only apply to raves, but also dance clubs, rap concerts etc. but raves are where I started experimenting
    Last edited by Californiastyle; 03-18-2012 at 12:42 AM.

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    I also go to a lot of electronic events but am somewhat nervous about dancing "on" girls as you put it. How do you know when it's okay to do that?

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    Awesome man. Thanks for the post. I thought I was the only creep who gets turned down lol.

    I live far away from the city where all the clubbing goes on, and the electronic scene is at its peak, and I don't drive, so its a bit tough to get to it. But I'm gonna make an effort to hit up the clubs a bit more, sacrifice a few sleepless nights all for the sake of some good music and fine women.

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    Quote Originally Posted by brahms View Post
    I also go to a lot of electronic events but am somewhat nervous about dancing "on" girls as you put it. How do you know when it's okay to do that?
    its always ok to dance on a girl until she rejects u, i don't waste time seeking approval. shes either down or she'll push u off. girls usually make it clear whether they feel it or not.

    unlike traditional PUAs, its not about looking for cues or IOIs. just go up and do it. slowly but surely advance on the girl until your dancing with her, u don't wanna come from nowwhere and just grind on her, use the crowded situation to ur advantage. face the fire. most importantly, keep dancing and enjoying the music regardless of your success rate.

    u won't be able to pickup on every girl you get to dance w. only 1/3 girls i approach, will let me dance w em, only 1/3 girls i dance w will i be able to get the number from, and only so many will actually live close enough to arrange for a date. but once u get the date the intentions & physical comfort is established. at clubs and campus raves, its much more likely they live close enough compared to massives. its a numbers game.
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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    i deeply enjoy going to raves and electronic events, while there ive picked up a hobby called gloving which is using white gloves with LED lights placed in the fingertips and are used around in intricute patterns and hand movements to create lightshows for people at these shows, similarly to gloving

    at these shows there are inviduals or small groups which will ask for light shows and from there which i gladly do cause i enjoy doing it, often times it will be either an individual cute girl or a group of girls and from there i will often ask for them or one of them to dance with me in exchange of a lightshow and from there i usually either continue to dance and possibly make a connection
    fortune favors the bold

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    This thread comes at a right time for me. Im about to go to EDC,.. the largest rave in north america.

    I am a little afraid of raves because my first rave ever, my friends girl friend told me "Have fun but stop touching the girls too much ok?" That kind of made me self conscious about touching girls at raves.

    My questions are: Im... not a good dancer... Is there a way to pick up rave chicks with out having to "dance up on them"?

    So at the clubbs, where my game is decently strong. I grab a girl spit my game and then maybe bounce to get a drink or to the dance floor for dirty dancing. Will this not really work?

    When you guys say dance on them, do you mean you dance behind them and get closer and closer and touch them more and more until they notice or do you mean dance in front of them then turn around and dance at them.

    I have done really well at clubs but have never done well at raves. Im not sure what i am doing wrong. I'm thinking about just going in to this next rave and just go ballz out and hit on every girl i see until i find one that will make out with me, but it seems like talking approach is not a good idea. Should i just dance up on as many girls a possible until i find one that responds?

    The rave game has really frustrated me for years. I don't go often so i don't get a lot of rave game practice in. I do well at club games, i just don't know why my rave game is so bad....

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    @warlod

    im very jealous that your going to EDC, its something id really like to go go to but do not have the money for, which one are u going to?

    and now to your issue, what i think you want to do is try being a bit more subtle and perhaps a little less ambitious. Girls at raves (often due to various substances present at these events) sometimes don't like to be approached at all but sometimes they do if the circumstances are right. Feel free to try the dancing on method (i prefer to just tap on the shoulder and ask if she would like to dance) if you find yourself in a big crowd infront of a DJ.

    in my opinion the best way to win at the rave game is peacocking, i tend to do it with my glove light show as well as sometimes wearing a cool costume or something unusual. Thats one of the great things about a rave is the more ridiculous of a thing your wearing or doing the more girls, and people in general, love it. The same thing applies to wearing Kandi, which is kind of cheap rave jewlery made of beads that people will often trade at shows if they have an interest in another persons Kandi. A lot of rave girls wear a lot of Kandi. Also the thing that i do with my rave gloves and what other people do with glowsticks, orbits and poi etc. is a great way of getting girls and people in general to be attracted and approach me, and from that point u can either build rapport or just ask to dance

    and to sum it all up, i highly recomend either learning a light toy technique like the ones i mentioned, making alot of cool funny and interesting Kandi, coming up with an awesome outfit/costume the least bit go to spencers and buy LED shoelaces and LED hater blocker shades and then see where you can go from there. Lastly, if all you end up with is rejection and failure you should still just try to enjoy yourself and enjoy the fact your at EDC, its a huge rave thats also a carnival, i hear it is one of the top experiences of a life time so yea even if girls don't work out i highly recommend trying to atleast have a great time
    fortune favors the bold

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    Quote Originally Posted by Aaron go bragh View Post
    @warlod

    im very jealous that your going to EDC, its something id really like to go go to but do not have the money for, which one are u going to?

    and now to your issue, what i think you want to do is try being a bit more subtle and perhaps a little less ambitious. Girls at raves (often due to various substances present at these events) sometimes don't like to be approached at all but sometimes they do if the circumstances are right. Feel free to try the dancing on method (i prefer to just tap on the shoulder and ask if she would like to dance) if you find yourself in a big crowd infront of a DJ.

    in my opinion the best way to win at the rave game is peacocking, i tend to do it with my glove light show as well as sometimes wearing a cool costume or something unusual. Thats one of the great things about a rave is the more ridiculous of a thing your wearing or doing the more girls, and people in general, love it. The same thing applies to wearing Kandi, which is kind of cheap rave jewlery made of beads that people will often trade at shows if they have an interest in another persons Kandi. A lot of rave girls wear a lot of Kandi. Also the thing that i do with my rave gloves and what other people do with glowsticks, orbits and poi etc. is a great way of getting girls and people in general to be attracted and approach me, and from that point u can either build rapport or just ask to dance

    and to sum it all up, i highly recomend either learning a light toy technique like the ones i mentioned, making alot of cool funny and interesting Kandi, coming up with an awesome outfit/costume the least bit go to spencers and buy LED shoelaces and LED hater blocker shades and then see where you can go from there. Lastly, if all you end up with is rejection and failure you should still just try to enjoy yourself and enjoy the fact your at EDC, its a huge rave thats also a carnival, i hear it is one of the top experiences of a life time so yea even if girls don't work out i highly recommend trying to atleast have a great time
    Hey aaraon, The EDC im going to is the big daddy of all the EDC's. Its EDC Vegas. I live here so going is easy for me, im pretty sure all 300,000 tickets have been sold out last time i checked. I appreciated the tips but there are some info i left out that might be important.

    Im old...37.. BUT! I look young. Im not saying this because im delusional. Im 6 foot tall 180lbs athletic body,good looking with full head of hair and no wrinkles.

    The last 4 girls i had sex with starting with the girl from December was a(HB9 21 Years old), 1 month ago an (HB7 1/2) 25 year old and last week Tuesday,An (HB6 22 years old) and on Saturday an (HB7 1/2) 23 years old. All 4 of these girls guess my age at 27-28, and they were all sober when they guessed.

    So.. at my age.. Im not sure if its cool if i wear the crazy clothe, i think they are cool, but if a young girl ask me my age and i tell them 37 and they see me with the crazy stuff, i think she might think im weird/creepy no?

    I guess im not really trying to tackle the "super raver" girls. More the casual raver, girls who are dressed up but not crazy with the Kandy and light shows. There will probably be about 150,000 to 200,000 people per day so i think you get a lot more casual ravers, non-ravers, people who just like the music, then a smaller rave where everybody there is mostly a hard-core raver.

    When i went last year, I'd say about 25% of people there had Kandy. About the same percentage of people had glow sticks/glove lights etc. Almost all girls were dressed in costumes and the guys mostly just wore tanktop/T-shirt and jeans.

    So any advice for an older guy to game at raves hahaha. Any old ravers here have any stories and techniques they like to brag about?? I love to hear them!!

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    can't wait for EDC. gonna be so many HBs to hustle. its gonna be crowded and hard to move through the crowd, but there 3 days and 10 consecutive hours per day..its alot of time.

    still gotta get the priorities straight, im not gonna miss swedish house mafia or alesso just to get laid. im mostly looking for prospects that live near me so i can line up some dates for the summer.

    i wear a little kandi and a paint slashed shirt but im not gonna Peacock too much. sure it can work, but im more about dancing & physicality, i like my physique and looks.

    nothing wrong with being 37 as long as ur target is 18+ lol, and thank god EDC is 18+ now. since EDC is so expensive the crowd will probably be a bit older than most 18+ raves. im mostly targeting other college students, especially CC students, im 23.

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    warlord,
    ironically i've struggled at clubs but have no problem at raves. its probably because i come on so direct and aggressive. i used to be very self consious, but ive gotten used to the fire, i still face some nasty rejections...but the taste to success gets even sweeter after a nasty series of rejections...it really makes u appreciate the girl who u've succeeded with.

    im horrible at conversations, but im great at getting physical. two weeks ago at party at a lake, i literally walked up a girl and hooked with her, i only said one sentence to her before, and had i spoken more i would've screwed it up. i just said whats up, gave her a hug and dipped my face into her and went for it...finished on a boat!

    Aaron go bragh,
    our styles r so different its like comparing paul janka to mystery in terms of approach philosophy! but its sound like you have something that works too. but i wholeheartedly agree the objective is to have fun whether your successful or not. girls tend to come your way when ur have fun...even after i get clearly rejected by one girl..i keep having fun another comes my way.

    my steps are complete backwards of most PUAs, you directly establish intimate physicality by dancing first and maybe even making out...often within a few minutes during a song.., then u get to know her and then get her name last(so u don't forget while u type into ur phone rightaway)...then go for the hookup or number...my steps go in the opposite order of most pickup progressions.

    kinda funny, at lovefest, i picked up ona a really cute girl who was into gloving...right after i was rejected by another girl she moves in front of me and we dance...i took her out for few dates but she wanted a committed relationship i wanted to keep things open.


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