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    Californiastyle is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default electronic music event pickups

    I've been trying to work raves & massives as a place to do pickups(and hookups if possible). I'm a college student who loves electronic music events.

    I'm trying to develop a method of meeting the girl at the rave and taking her all the way to the bedroom or if the event offers a love lounge that's even better.

    obviously comfortably getting physical is major aspect. sometimes accidental bumping and touching to check her interest helps. making eye contact before can help, but sometimes you can just dance with her from behind(slowly but sure making her feel you presence)., you can get sense of how comfortable she is with you dancing on her.

    dancing with what I call "Movie trailer to sex". creating physical Tension by making her feel a factor of physical dominance(if im at the front of the stage I trying pushing her into the stage set so she has to lean into it one her hand) while touching everything between her tits and ***. I try to put my hands as deep as possible without actually fingering her to create tension(sounds creepy but its actually works!)

    I had my first successful pickup meeting a cute girl by dancing with her taking down her number when the artist stopped, working some text game on her and getting her to come straight to my bedroom. She happened to live nearby.

    The ideal situation is when the artist stops playing and you have a chance to chat with her and make eye contact. In some situations when the artist continues playing and it too loud sometime i found putting my phone in her face works too, but it doesn't give you a chance to build rapport which I think is important

    I also noticed sometimes if you try to dance with a girl and she rejects your approach and moves away, another girl who's interest maybe just move right in front of you.

    I tend to get better results with house music over dubstep.

    anyone else who's had success or is interested in rave pickups should share their thoughts.

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    i think this is a good approach, raves can be a little hectic. Especially when its really crowded and turns into more of a mosh than anything. Also there is no dialogue that can be passed around during the show, its all either before or after. nice post.

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    Regarding raves I think it's important to keep in mind ecstacy plays a huge factor in how open and friendly woman are. I go to raves a lot as well and have met girls and kept in contact with them and it is very possible that who they are during the show is completely different then who they are a couple days after.

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    Hey Californiastyle, You and I are on the same page brother.
    I am totally all about the raves and the women there are so beautiful!
    Here is what I do when I go pick up girls at raves and music parties. Body language is HUGE at raves everyone is running around getting water, going to the bathroom, taking drugs etc.
    Anyways good openers that show no interest is the way to go!
    Open them and keep the energy level equal to what they are feeling if they are dancing keep dancing do NOT stop. After while vibes will be given either you go up and start dancing with her or while dancing you keep talking. look of IOIs and feel The Vibe. If you have a particular artist you want to go see tell her about him hype him up and try bouncing her, if you do that your in. bouncing around at Raves is key.

    PLUR bro.

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    I agree the rave seen is hectic sometimes and alot of the people are pretty chill and usually the dancing will always be fun and sometimes run the whole night, but when you want to see another artist somewhere eelse she and five of her girls don't want to get separated, any advice how to take on five on one lol?

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    Bounce the entire group, you look more boss with 5 girls anyways

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    Quote Originally Posted by Ace_Medic View Post
    I agree the rave seen is hectic sometimes and alot of the people are pretty chill and usually the dancing will always be fun and sometimes run the whole night, but when you want to see another artist somewhere eelse she and five of her girls don't want to get separated, any advice how to take on five on one lol?
    dance w her, get intimate and build some Tension, then get her number and get out. text her ur name and some memo to help her remember u and see how she responds. find her on fb the day after.

    never hesitate, the moment her and her friends notice u hesitating its over.

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    the other aspect of the rave game is you'll have to handle lots of rejection no matter how good you get. i get rejected over half of the times ona good day. even if u get rejected 20 times in a row, as long as u pickup/hookup on one of em then you're successful.

    some girls and or their friends will talk among themselves labeling u a creeper, get used to it and move on. the hotter the girl, the easier it is to dance and pickup on her. you have be able to move through the crowd effectively.

    sometimes i deliberately dance on a slightly above average looking girl know ill likely get rejected to grab the attention of hotter girls. as long as u don't push too hard, don't take it personally and continue having fun and dancing, many times especially hot ones will move right in front of you to give u a chance to dance on em.

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    Quote Originally Posted by Genetix View Post
    Bounce the entire group, you look more boss with 5 girls anyways
    this would be the best thing to do if possible. but often dance w her establish a little Tension and speak w her(can be tough at times) build lil rapport and close.

    if ur w a group w other decent looking girls in the group who r ur friends introduce her to the group after u build a few minutes of rapport and take down the number & work some text game.

    i like to play girls who are outside over one within the group. u screw up within the group, ull have consequences, but u screw up w and outsider u not only lose nothing, u gain experience. within the group, when i do chase i play role of a pusher. while outside the group im a puller.

    i've essentially take the approach from paul janka's get laid in NYC & attraction formula and applied it at raves instead of the streets of NYC(he one of the most controversial PUAs but his mental approach is perfect for raves. nonhesitant, aggressive, handling rejection, establishing physical comfort and intrigue very quickly is key. i think to play the rave game, knowing some texting game is essential too.

    on another note on music type, for me electro house establishes the mood, a very good emotional state within the girl, i get excited too. the songs are upbeat, exciting and some of em have a wonderland theme which adds intrigue. also the pace of electro house roughly the same pace of sex generating tension. that why i find electro house ideal. notice u listen to levels by avicii, calling by Ingrosso & alesso, or space junk by wolfgang gartner u feel certain emotions, happiness, excitement, intrugue. i blast those songs when i get em into my bedroom.
    Last edited by Californiastyle; 03-16-2012 at 08:42 AM.

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    Default Re: electronic music event pickups

    Awesome post Californiastyle. I haven't in a while, but doing pickup at raves is something I'd be down to try for myself. You game solo when you're out at raves?


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