I've been trying to work raves & massives as a place to do pickups(and hookups if possible). I'm a college student who loves electronic music events.
I'm trying to develop a method of meeting the girl at the rave and taking her all the way to the bedroom or if the event offers a love lounge that's even better.
obviously comfortably getting physical is major aspect. sometimes accidental bumping and touching to check her interest helps. making eye contact before can help, but sometimes you can just dance with her from behind(slowly but sure making her feel you presence)., you can get sense of how comfortable she is with you dancing on her.
dancing with what I call "Movie trailer to sex". creating physical Tension by making her feel a factor of physical dominance(if im at the front of the stage I trying pushing her into the stage set so she has to lean into it one her hand) while touching everything between her tits and ***. I try to put my hands as deep as possible without actually fingering her to create tension(sounds creepy but its actually works!)
I had my first successful pickup meeting a cute girl by dancing with her taking down her number when the artist stopped, working some text game on her and getting her to come straight to my bedroom. She happened to live nearby.
The ideal situation is when the artist stops playing and you have a chance to chat with her and make eye contact. In some situations when the artist continues playing and it too loud sometime i found putting my phone in her face works too, but it doesn't give you a chance to build rapport which I think is important
I also noticed sometimes if you try to dance with a girl and she rejects your approach and moves away, another girl who's interest maybe just move right in front of you.
I tend to get better results with house music over dubstep.
anyone else who's had success or is interested in rave pickups should share their thoughts.