Dating Your Best Friend’s Girl

It will probably happen to you at least once in your lifetime and there’s not a whole lot you can do about it. One day, you will probably wake up to realize that you are falling for your best friend’s girlfriend. Don’t beat yourself up about it. It actually makes a lot of sense.
There is a reason this guy is your best friend. Maybe he taught you everything he knows as a Pick Up Artist.

You have similarities in many areas. Most likely, you like a lot of the same activities and possibly even the same type of women. Even if you don’t have similar tastes in women, it’s not unusual to be attracted to his girlfriend. Here’s why. If you are around your best friend and his girl chances are good that you are seeing the absolute best of this woman. She is aiming to please him and presenting her best face.

In addition, she might even be flirting with you to stimulate a tiny bit of jealousy in your best friend. So sometimes you might find you are attracted without even realizing why because she is sending subtle signals to you.
After realizing that it is normal to be attracted to your best friend’s girl and that you shouldn’t feel guilty about it, you might be wondering what next? Well, this shouldn’t even have to be said. It should be so obvious that anyone would know this, but it still bears saying: Whatever you do, keep things between her and you platonic. Not only are you ruining a friendship, but you are marking yourself as a creep and racking up some bad karma on top of that (if you believe in that stuff).

Therefore, I don’t care if she walks into your bedroom naked and begs you to have sex, you stay far, far away and you will be better off. She obviously is no stranger in the art of how to flirt.

Now there is nothing wrong with imagining the wonderful future life you will have together after your best friend and this girl breaks up. That might become a reality. It’s not the first time this scenario has occurred and led to a long-lasting relationship. But the key is to make sure that they are completely broken up and then talk to your friend about it.

At that point, you are going to have to decide how valuable your friendship is. The reason I say this is that just because they are broken up doesn’t mean you friend is going to escort you to his ex-girlfriend’s bedroom. In fact, even bringing the idea up might destroy your friendship. But here is the thing: you don’t have to gain his approval to date the girl.

Now that they are broken up, she is fair game. By asking his advice, or letting him know your feelings you are being courteous. You don’t need his permission. You are going to have to decide if the friendship is worth it or if dating her is worth destroying the friendship. But again, the point is that once they are broken up, she is fair play.

Just remember, anything before then is off limits.