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How to Act Around A Beautiful Woman
New 09-14-2010 01:17 PM
Bill Preston

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Too many men stumble and bumble around, choking on their words when they encounter a beautiful woman. They act like fools or worse, idiots, when they come across a woman they find attractive.

Why is that? Are you putting a woman on a pedestal she doesnít belong on simply based on her looks? That is what happens. Before one single word comes out of an attractive womanís mouth, most guys have already propelled her to the top shelf and act like she is better than them. The worst part is man, guys already have the woman on a pedestal even before they even figure out how to approach women. This woman could be the cruelest and/or dumbest broad theyíve ever met, but they donít even bother to take the time to find that out before they decide they are unworthy of her.

This is so silly and a great waste of energy and time.

Sure, there are going to be stunning, intelligent, lovely women who may intimidate the heck out of you when you engage her in conversation, but that is no reason to assume she is better than you.

The truth is most beautiful women date men who are not as attractive to them anyway. No woman wants to date a guy who is better looking than they are. Thatís why you see gorgeous women with so-so guys.

So the first thing to do is to not place a beautiful woman on a pedestal. One way to do this is to instantly compare her to you dream woman in the media. So for instance, if Scarlett Johansson is your dream girl, you would say she is a 10. When you meet a new woman, use that scale to determine where she falls. If you find a woman who truly is a 10 compared to your dream woman, then donít pass on the chance to talk to her. But odds are you will release most beautiful women are 7s or 8s. That makes it easier to speak to them.

In addition, remember that beauty is more than skin deep. The most physically attractive woman can instantly become ugly if she is cruel or idiotic. Your goal when approaching a beautiful woman is to see what she is like and whether she lives up to your standards.

Have a mental checklist in your head of other traits (besides physical attractiveness) that you look for in a girl. When you do find a beautiful woman remember that she might not have all of the qualities you are looking for, but you are going to take the time to talk to her to find out. Because maybe she does and then you can ask her out. But if you go into the situation realizing that this woman is beautiful but not perfect and possibly not even close to right for you, it will Take Away some of your anxiety and you can act more natural and relaxed, which is always a better bet.

The more natural and calm you are, the better chance you have of showing this woman what you are really like so if she does have all those qualities you are looking for, you have a great chance of hooking up.

Article By Bill Preston


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