Do you want to learn how to pick up women? It helps to read books. It helps to chat online with other men in your situation. It helps to dress nice and be healthy. It helps to work on your self esteem and becoming the best man you can be.

But what really teaches you how to pick up women is watching other men do it.
By attending a pick up artist boot camp, you are getting a crash course in how to meet and attract women by men who do it day after day.

I’m not talking about a brief conversation in a bar that is successful. What I’m talking about is meeting a woman and then sustaining the relationship over time – or as long as you both want.

There is a science to picking up women, but it is not as rigid as you might think.
Sometimes men are intimidated because they think they need to memorize a bunch of pick up lines or clever anecdotes or other things to say to women.

But I’m telling you right now, you don’t. What you do need to do is learn the ability to say the right thing in the right way.

Because honestly, it doesn’t matter what you say. It only matters how you say it.
The most striking example of this is when we are conducting a pick up artist boot camp at a club or bar somewhere and I ask one of the attendees to think of the absolute worst thing I could say to a woman if I were trying to pick her up.

For instance, once a guy told me to tell her she was so ugly she was kind of cute. Now, let me preface this by saying normally I would never say this to a woman, but I knew if I played my cards right, I would get her laughing.

So I took my time and approached this beautiful woman. I’m not going to tell you all my secrets in this one article – that’s what the boot camp teaches you – but you can be sure that I did say this to this knockout and that she smiled and was touching my arm and talking to me animatedly within moments.

It just goes to show it really, truly doesn’t matter what you say; it is all about how you say it.

What is great about attending a pick up artist boot camp is not only can you see how other men are successful in person, but you can ask them questions and tap into their storehouse of knowledge.

Sometimes hands on experience is the best way to learn something.

If you are new to the pick up artist community, attending a pick up artist boot camp will jump start your journey toward meeting women. Or if you have been learning how to attract women, but need a boost in the right direction, a pick up artist boot camp can help you refine and perfect what you have already learned.

Bill has been teaching pick up artist techniques for the last 5 years and has been sharing advice as a guest instructor at the top pua boot camp in NYC.