If you’ve watched my video – and if you haven’t you should because it’s awesome, it’s free and it’s coming down soon – you know that seduction involves way more than bulldozing your way into that first kiss.

Most guys just rush in for the first kiss and frankly, women don’t like it. Every guy does it and it really is quite a turn off. What is creative about that? I’ll tell you – nothing.

Bring a little creativity into your life and spice it up a bit. You will be glad you did.

As I mention in my Whiskey Kiss video, there is another way to capture a woman’s interest and attention. There is another way to leave her thinking about you constantly and wanting to get to know you better. It is all about planting a seed of interest in her mind. It is about letting her know you want to be more than friends in a sexy way, not an amateurish, childish manner.

Women are not seduced by groping. You know what I mean – grabbing a part of their body as they walk by or while they are sitting next to you on the couch watching a movie or while they are trying to get some work done.

The way to Attract Women is to appeal to their sensual side. This does not just mean their body, it also means their mind.

Seduction actually begins many hours before you actually get together. It is about words, it is about nonverbal actions and gestures and lastly, it is about subtlety.
The Whiskey Kiss is the perfect example of this. It is a playful fun game almost that intrigues women. They want to know more. They want to have more.

Think of a woman like a cat not a dog. You might grab your dog and roughhouse and the dog loves it. Unless you want an extremely ticked of cat, you don’t grab it by the scruff and manhandle it. You call it over to you with soft soothing words and you gently stroke it until it begins purring.

I know there are exceptions to the rule, but women generally don’t want you to move in for the kill right away. They want you to help them get used to the idea of more physical contact. They want you to convince them in a slow, gentle manner.

I can’t speak for all men, but would it really work for you if you are sitting there minding your own business and some woman comes up and grabs you, you know where. Probably not. You also need a little time to get used to the idea, so it makes sense that a woman would, as well, right?

If you want to make a woman happy, try thinking about what makes her happy. Simplistic? Not really. I think some guys get caught up too much in what they want and not what the woman wants. Because let’s face it guys, if your woman isn’t happy, you’re not happy.

Bill teaches normal guys how to pick up women and is an expert at relating to the normal guy. Feel free to jump in and contribute to the discussion here, or take a look at the recommended pua products to jump start your game. Once you check some of those out, your problems related to how to approach women will no longer be an issue.