If you want to keep a girl’s interest, sometimes it helps to establish from the get go that you are not looking for a relationship and just want to stay friends.

It doesn’t matter if you want to be friends with benefits, but the point is you don’t want to be tied down in an exclusive relationship.

I always recommend that every guy on the dating scene make sure they date at least five women at a time. Now, when I recommend this strategy, also keep in mind that after six months to a year of doing this, you may decide that one of your five is girlfriend material or even a prospective wife, but unless you’ve been seeing her for many, many months, I would not even consider dating her exclusively.

There are many reasons why you should do this.

One reason that I give is that if you are dating someone and they disappoint you in some way or don’t live up to your expectations, or even just don’t do it for you, then you can move onto one of your other four dates.

You can keep the number steady by finding a new number five.

I know this seems a bit heartless, but it is not. As long as you are honest and don’t let any of the women think you are seeing them exclusively then all is fair. If you are acting with honor and integrity, they can’t complain.

After all, you wouldn’t be spending time with them if you didn’t enjoy their company, right? And for now, that is all you can offer.

When I say be honest with them, I don’t mean spill the beans or blab your guts out. I don’t mean telling them that you believe in dating five women at once and here’s why, blah, blah, blah.

What I mean is that you can say that you are not ready to date her exclusively. You can say that this might change in the future, but right now, you are just enjoying spending time with her. If you are always honest and sincere in meaning what you say, this is a very fair and honorable way to approach dating multiple women.

When you date several women, you actually become more attractive to others. It is the law of scarcity and that women want what they can’t have. In addition, your confidence level is probably at skyrocketing levels because you know that many women find you attractive and enjoy your company.

Because of this, when you date multiple women you are in a sense offering the best self you can to these women. You are not being needy or clingy because you know that there are an abundance of women vying for your affections.

Again, maybe after several months you realize that you truly only want to hang out with one of the five women you date and that you really could do without seeing the other women, as great as they are.

At that point, you do need to change the situation in all fairness to everyone else involved. But until that moment, enjoy all the amazing women in your life as you offer them your very best self.