Do you think that you need to look like Brad Pitt to get a date?
Hereís a little secret. Women want men who are less attractive than they are. They want to be the pretty ones in the relationship.
There are many reasons for this, but the main was is then they donít have to worry as much about keeping their man. If a guy is drop dead, movie star gorgeous, then every other woman on the planet is going to be after him. No woman wants to deal with that kind of competition.
What a woman wants is to be a slightly, or even a lot, better looking than her guy. She can then be more secure in her relationship.
Despite what you might think, men are the ones attracted to women for looks, not the other way around. Women are more likely to be attracted to a man for his masculinity than his good looks. This is something that a good pick up artist knows and will actually work on becoming more of an alpha male.
That is the way nature created us. Men are attracted by physical appearance, so we think women are attracted for the same reasons. Not true. Women are naturally looking for providers (even if she is the 6-figure-earning CEO type and wants you to be the stay-at-home Dad.)
They arenít looking for arm candy. Women are looking for someone who can provide stability.
The best way to show you are what they want is to really get in touch with your masculine side. This doesnít mean being a jerk. It just means knowing yourself so well that you know what you want and donít want. It is about knowing where your boundaries, are, as well. What you will put up with, what you wonít put up with. If you think about yourself and have standards and boundaries, you will automatically be a masculine male to her.
Now when I say you donít need to look like Brad Pitt, Iím not saying that looks donít matter at all. But what matters is how you take care of your God given body and face. You could be a so-so looking guy and become infinitely more attractive if you have impeccable grooming and dress nice. This can make a world of difference, trust me.
You could also be a really attractive guy but if you grow that fugly Brad Pitt beard and dress like a slob, smell like sweat and have bad breath, you are going to find it more difficult to attract women.
So, no, you donít need to look like Brad Pitt, but you do need to make some effort to be the most attractive you can be. If you are overweight, start doing something about it. Become the best version of you that you can and that will be good enough. It will be great, actually.
If you donít believe me, take a look around. Everywhere you go you see hot, amazing women with so-so looking guys. Itís the way it works. So donít let your thoughts about your looks stop you for one minute.